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To not understand why groups of adults are shopping together?

95 replies

Itsmybirthday19 · 27/03/2020 16:26

And blocking the fucking aisles as they walk around together...

...seriously, what is wrong with people?

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Buster72 · 27/03/2020 16:31

Do they live in the same house?

formerbabe · 27/03/2020 16:32

I have no idea why couples need to do the food shopping together right now.

Itsmybirthday19 · 27/03/2020 16:33

Couples are irritating, but FIVE people who appear to be related?

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tiredanddangerous · 27/03/2020 16:46

Because they’re fucking idiots. DH went out for bread and milk earlier and said there were lots of families in the shop (mum, dad plus 2 or 3 kids).

DGRossetti · 27/03/2020 16:52

Disabled and carer ?

plunkplunkfizz · 27/03/2020 16:54

I can see the virtue in a couple shopping together if there is no access to a car. If one goes out and shops they can only get as much as one person can carry and might have to shop later in the week. This results in two opportunities to catch the virus and bring it home to the other person. If both go, they can buy more food and make one trip.

SparklesAllOver · 27/03/2020 16:55

Surely, unless you are caring for someone who cannot go out alone, you would shop alone to reduce risk? This baffles me completely, some people are treating this crisis like a naional holiday!

SparklesAllOver · 27/03/2020 16:56

national holiday

HopeYouStepOnALego · 27/03/2020 16:56

Two people I can understand as there are restrictions on how much you can buy and they may need to buy for parents or elderly neighbours, but five is just a piss take.

AutumnRose1 · 27/03/2020 16:57

I don’t know aboit large groups but two guys from my building are volunteering. They have no car so they’re having to do that thing of loading up heavy bags and carrying a handle each.

They’re spending so much time together, if they’re over each other shoulder for shopping, it won’t make much difference.

Other groups may be shopping for care homes etc.

Anyone taking the whole house shopping is fucking mad, I get annoyed when they do that anyway! 😂

dontgobaconmyheart · 27/03/2020 16:57

As above OP, in the vast majority of cases it is because they are total dicks.

I live with someone working in food stores/retail. The staff are bending over backwards endangering themselves and their families to get people their food, for very little pay and who no real enforcement of safety measures- no masks or gloves sent down, no signs. Everything that have had to get themselves.

Customers are still out for just the morning paper, or a chocolate bar or a lottery ticket or a few bits and bobs that they fancy such as making a nice cake to cheer us all up. Absolutely isn't essential shopping and the shops are being treated as though they are a jolly escape from this for the bored and entitled.

People should be deeply ashamed. Go to the shops only if you need MEDICINE or FOOD (if you literally have none at home NOT because you fancy something specific or want to bloody treat yourself). Stop trying to pay with cash, stop giving workers grief when you are asked to leave because you were not capable of understanding that coming in several times a day is not allowed, nor is popping in for one non essential item. Treat it as though it is dangerous to do, because it IS, and treat it as though it is a place you will only go of you have to.

I am immune compromised, have a serious illness and a separate heart condition. This person is my carer outside of this job and they have no choice but to work (including overtime to meet demand) unlike a lot of people at home, safe, with pay. I wouldn't survive without them and likely won't when they bring it home. Galling to have to have extra worry about that because people are oxygen thieves.

formerbabe · 27/03/2020 16:59

I've seen loads of couples out shopping...not disabled and a carer. Two healthy able bodied adults. It's ridiculous.

Oh and couples with kids, why on earth doesnt one parent stay home with the kids?!

Mrsfrumble · 27/03/2020 16:59

Yes, plunkplunkfizz has the answer. Lots of households in our neighbourhood don’t have a car (London) so would struggle to stock up for a week if limited by what one person could carry. I’d take DH with me for this reason if the children could be left home alone.

merrygoround51 · 27/03/2020 17:01

A woman was on here a few days ago wondering if her husband could go shopping and with her cos she was shit at it and he wouldn’t get everything on the list. What a pair

BiggerBoat1 · 27/03/2020 17:02

Because they're morons.

Hope that helps. Grin

MikeUniformMike · 27/03/2020 17:10

It's Noah's SupermArket. You go in two by two.

AutumnRose1 · 27/03/2020 17:10

One other thing is if they don’t have a car, and I think most Londoners don’t, it might be about what they can carry.

I don’t know. I have no intention of going near a shop till Monday but I’ve only got to shop for one person.

LolaSmiles · 27/03/2020 17:11

Were you in the same shop as me earlier this week?

Whole shop was quiet, single people with one trolley, no panic buying, everyone keeping their distance or trying to.

Then one family who did not get it at all. One group of adult children and partners with parents who were no older than 50s we're back and forth up and down every aisle, splitting up, picking up items, carrying them around the store to each other saying "ere have you seen this...", leaning over or around people and generally being a nuisance.
Then the checkouts had markers on the floor showing a safe distance so the queues went up some of the aisles and they were joining queues too close to people, getting bored and sending someone to look at other queues, one of them jumped in-between the two floor markers and then called to the rest of them to join the shorter queue, were told politely by the woman behind that they've jumped the queue and are too close. Naturally this was HILARIOUS to the group of idiots who felt the need to laugh and call to each other 'eee I forget we all have to be miles away from each other'.

I've never seen so many shoppers eye roll at each other in solidarity at a group of idiots like this in a long time.

formerbabe · 27/03/2020 17:12

One other thing is if they don’t have a car, and I think most Londoners don’t

I live in zone 3...every person on my street has a car

DGRossetti · 27/03/2020 17:12

I've seen loads of couples out shopping...not disabled and a carer. Two healthy able bodied adults. It's ridiculous.

Not all disabilities are visible.

Itsmybirthday19 · 27/03/2020 17:13

I was stuck behind them in the queue in the end and can confirm they were a family and had brought a car.

They also took the time to complain to the cashier about the Krispy Kreme cabinet being empty and were not best pleased to be told they were 'not essential items'.

🤦🏻‍♀️

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Itsmybirthday19 · 27/03/2020 17:14

I also live in Zone 3 and know free without a car.

Also, this supermarket is just off a dual carriageway so it's tricky to access on foot. Not impossible but the number of pedestrian shoppers is low.

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Beanybop · 27/03/2020 17:15

My local Morrison’s are only allowing one person per household, shopping was a dream.

Mrsfrumble · 27/03/2020 17:15

That’s nice for you all Lola but loads of people on our street don’t (including us).

Itsmybirthday19 · 27/03/2020 17:16

So, my verdict is, indeed, just morons.

When they had finished checking out, they stood by the window at the end of the tills chatting and dancing to the in store radio while sorting through their bags and then went to buy lottery tickets.

They were definitely making 'an event' of their trip to Asda.

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