Hey. Can somebody tell me or my own sanity if this is normal. I’m pretty sure it isn’t but I’m now doubting myself. My mother is suggesting that I am being selfish because I said we can’t come for Easter and probably not see each other until at least the summer. She’s fully aware what’s going on as she keeps on telling me I should be more considerate as this is very hard on her specifically. I am the only person in our family that doesn’t li be in the same town. I live 30 miles away. My siblings still stay in the same town. I do get that it’s hard for her but it’s hard for everyone. Not that she ever asks how we are. We are trying to balance childcare and work as with millions of parents. Only a narcissist would turn something awful like what’s going on to be about them. Please tell me am I being selfish here?!