To want to report him

[covidunruly]

This guy I've been talking to, is a nurse at a hospital.
I have messages where he's informed me he's not sticking to lockdown rules and is actively meeting up with crowds and going to houses etc and then going to work in the hospital with vulnerable patients.
I have all the details, where he works etc, although I don't know his address.
I'm worried obviously about him infecting people with his job.
He won't stop and has now asked to meet up with me. I've clearly said no.
I want to report him. Aibu?

I don’t think you’re being unreasonable if he’s putting lives at risk

He actually told you this? Or are you guessing?
It sounds like you don’t know him?

@Krazynights34 as I said I have messages (evidence) where he's told nd this on many an occasion

What he says and what he does could be 2 different things.

Report him

Usually I’d say it’s not your problem. Right now I say report him absolutely.

Yes report him.

Report him! As a nurse myself I have enough worry about patients putting me at risk let alone a colleague

Is he actually a nurse or just pretending to be one? I’m assuming this is online dating?

He's actually a nurse.
I don't doubt that he's actually ignoring advice. If I asked to meet up with him I'm 100% sure he'd say yes.
I discussed at length how he's putting people at risk and he said, "those government rules don't apply to me. I'm a key worker"
Where would I report him to, the hospital he works at, the ccg, the police?

Arrange the meeting and then call the local police non emergency number for advice and see what they say. Obviously don't turn up yourself.

It makes you wonder how many other key workers feel this way. He needs reporting.

Oh OP. Looks like he’s on Mumsnet with the username NewYearNewJob123! Since it’s out of the bag, report away.

I’d suggest ringing the police and CCG.

Desperate times calls for desperate measures. As in similar vein of previous poster, any other time this wouldn’t be an issue but now this could cause serious issues, life or death issues.

I'm NHS staff. If you are sure then do it. I've now been home apart from work days for two weeks. We should be protecting our patients. Some have moved from their own homes to safeguard their families.

Sick of the bloody key worker phrase already tho, suddenly everyone is one and often in a very self important way.

Report him

Please report him, think of how many other hospital staff he could infect, as well as patients and anyone else he comes into contact with. Seems like he’s in the wrong job to me.

What do people imagine would actually happen if she did 'report' him?

For a start..report to who? People are suggesting the Police? The CCG?

You think the Police would pop round to have a word? Or someone from the CCG? No. Nothing would happen other than wasting someones time having to take a pointless call 🙄

Report ASAP

Report him to the manager where he works.

I would really like to know who you will report him too, I want to report my incredibly selfish neighbour but don't know who too!

OP have you met him or has this all been online chat? Do you know for sure he is a nurse? I could talk to anyone online and say I do something specific for a job and it be a lie.

If you decide to report, ensure he actually is one and not just talking rubbish because of the situation we are all in at the moment.

@PhilCornwall1 as said up thread I know he works there for a fact.

@NewYearNewJob123 it is you. You will need a new job.

You think i'm the bloke you've been chatting to via OLD? 😂

I don't really care tbh.
Either way you have a common denominator.