So.. next door neighbour ( whom has precisely kept on ringing door bell after 8pm after having DS AT 2/3 weeks when we were both very unwell, and very unsympathetic when my mum who was staying has said she’s in bed. When wanting to talk to me about her new ‘fence’ she wants to Put up. Fence turned out to be wooden stakes with wire wrapped round ( think fences on estates etc). Accosted next on my one walk a day with DS in his sling hit stirring and me carrot. Two bags of shopping ( desperately needed some supplies), saying that she wanted to talk to me ‘about my garden’). Batting to her she says that she wants to grow tomatoes and wheeler she wants to grow them I currently have a shrub which is ‘taller then it’s ever been’ ( we moved in in november) and ‘ although she wouldn’t ask us to prune it now as it’s in flower it is talker than the origins owner kept it and is stopping light to her tomatoes’. I said well of course if anything is overflowing on your side, feel free to cut, as is your right. She kept on banging on about how it’s taller than it has been and I did point out to her that we would also like some privacy in our own Garden and is not the time to prune a ceonotha. She said that she will eh growing plants up her trellis and that would give us privacy and would not be until next year and she wa unable to move her vegetable table on her own. I said that I would t be pruning the garden at the moment and that it was not my priority but if she would like help to move her table to somewhere more sunny, that my husband could help her. She ignored this. Carried on saying that the lriwvius owner kept the bush low and she didn’t know how tall it would grow. I said well I don’t put my tomatoes out until end of may of beginning of June so surely we don’t need to worry about it no? She kept on saying she needs the light and doesn’t know how tall it will grow. I ended up saying ‘ we shall see’ as DS woke up in sling and started crying. Never any ‘ sorry I know your busy ( she doesn’t work) or ‘ I can see you have your hands full etc’). This all the meanwhile she is digging a bloody pond in her front garden which obv neighbours ours, but the whole estate is restricted by a covenant to our fences up and have to have the front garden in a certain way. Is she a CF. Or am I hormonal??