My husband is really good at some things- he seems to like his job, he is good at housework, DIY and he cooks & cleans.
He is bad at other things. He has no clue about our finances and he's generally bad at planning. If we have to have any work on the house done, I have to find and negotiate with the tradesmen etc. I also pay the bills, insurances etc. I am happy with this.
The issue happens when due to one reason or another I ask him to call a tradesman he will moan about it for 15 minutes and only do it if I snap at him. I asked him to go and speak to a neighbour about our garden fence and he made a million and ten excuses not to do it so I had to do it. Our broadband has stopped working (and we need it desperately as we're both working from home) and he refused to call them saying they would be closed (they weren't) so I had to call them and sit next to the router for 45 minutes. But he's happy to make me tea whilst I'm sat next to the router.
AIBU? I'm at the end of my tether.