Ok, single dad here, probably over thinking things, so here I am. I'll keep it short and sweet. Me and the ex split up years ago, our son lives with me and it's his birthday in about a fortnight. She's thinking of a barbecue, but that's not the problem. She's inviting a bunch of her friends, mostly with kids, and making a little party sort of thing. But here's me, bit geeky, bit nerdy, in the middle of a viral pandemic, wondering if it's wrong of me to say no to the occasion. I don't want to, it is his birthday. But this covid-19 is world wide, we're advised to socially distant ourselves, and I really don't think it's a good idea. Tbh, I think it's a bit idiotic. Don't know who the kids have been around, and some people would still take their kids even if they're poorly. Am I being unreasonable.