To ask those of you who had a baby at 40+

[mistyrains]

To share any experiences, tips, advice, help?

I’m hoping I’m pregnant, still have to wait a while to test.

Yes don't work until the day before your induction!
Accept all offers of help
Don't think you have to buy everything brand new
Have a storage system in each room for nappies, wipes etc so everything is to hand

It's the best thing to ever have happened to me.
Had ds at 41 and will have just turned 43 by the time dd arrives.
My advice would be to remember "this too shall pass" when you're in the thick of round the clock feeding/weaning/poonamis etc.
My husband is very hands on and we are very close, however we had our fair share of vicious rows in the early months. It's easier if you understand that this is pretty standard. Also, it is easier if you have a partner who is prepared to do their share!

I was 41 when I had my daughter by c section 8 years ago. I can honestly say its been a joy. I have no other advice except to say enjoy and cherish every moment. I had my first child at 19 and was so busy career building and well everything you do as you start out on independant life that I missed so much, 21 years later I had my daughter and its been amazing.Although I some days lack in energy I find I have more patience,time,money,and desire to be the best mother I can be.Wishing you the very best and hope you have your happiest days ever to come.

I had my last at 42. Total breeze of a pregnancy and what an amazing little boy he is! He’s going on 6 now.
I would never have one later than 42-43, tbh. We age rapidly in our 40s and it IS a different decade than our 30s. What I’m saying is, I wouldn’t plan on having babies into your mid 40s.
That would be my only advice. Get having babies done in your early 40s. Good luck to you!