Truth is, I don’t like my Nan as a person much. She only lives along the road but I see her maybe once a month at best, because I find her difficult. She’s one of those people who says she just ‘tells it how it is.’ Which basically means, she’s rude.
With the self isolation going on I have grabbed her some bits whilst shopping & tonight I FaceTimed her with the kids to see how she was getting on because she’s alone.
She told my lovely DH he was ‘fatter than the last time she saw him.’ She will always disguise it as caring or concern, but actually I am getting sick of excusing this behaviour just because she’s my Nan.
She frequently makes me feel bad, whether it be about my parenting, my own appearance, our house etc. She always has a little tip on how to improve ourselves/our circumstances/family.
I’m perfectly happy with my life & do not ask for her input!
So WIBU to just leave her to get on with it now, even under these circumstances? I feel really guilty & I know I’ll be the bad one when all is said & done, but I’m not sure I can take much more.