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Why does no one want to take any responsibility for their actions or decisions?!

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EL8888 · 20/03/2020 09:25

I have a member of staff with a young child, she announced yesterday she wishes to work from home as his school closes today. She then gets angry when l say this isn’t possible -we work in a person facing healthcare role. It is impossible, think minor injuries type clinic in your lounge! Also she is a locum so will only get paid if she works. The woman then gets increasingly aggressive and demanding as l explained why, despite the fact she knows why

She also doesn’t want to leave her child with his father / her husband who is not a key worker. They are together for clarity but “she doesn’t like him doing childcare”. I didn’t probe as it’s not my place but Hmm. Desperate times mean we need to be more flexible surely

It’s not my fault the schools and nurseries close and she won’t leave her child with his father. She’s liked earning an enhanced rate for a fair while as she’s a locum. I am more experienced and senior to her yet she is getting a good £10 an hour more than me. So she has been more than adequately compensated for and she chose this, rather than a permanent contract so it’s not a zero contract hours situation she’s been forced into. She had the offer of a contract but declined it earlier this year

It’s a gamble she took and is losing now. I’m annoyed she then wanted to take this out on me. People need to take responsibility for their actions and choices but they never want to do they! To be honest my priority yesterday was keeping our clients appointments and sorting out staffing rather than arguing with her.

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EL8888 · 23/03/2020 11:40

@Metoyoutoo to me it felt more like a face saving excuse. It felt more like the truth is he doesn’t want to and / or can’t be bothered

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EL8888 · 23/03/2020 11:41

@shinyredbus no, she won’t get paid

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Desperateforadviceplease · 24/03/2020 10:36

Ahh she clearly is a cheeky bitch- no doubt.

But my first thought when she saod her hisband cant do childcare is that he is abusive so maybe thats why she doesnt want him with the kid alone. It would explain taking the higher pay with no benefits as she may have been saving to leave him.

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