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neighbors making everyday noise

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margarre · 18/03/2020 15:43

My house is in close proximity to my neighbors, they have the right to pass by, we share the same gate. Our families have history of fights, courts. I am 40 to 50 year old in the story that last 10 plus years. I return from abroad, jobless and I landed in that old parents house. Now ten years later I have jobs, and I renovate a bit. Big investment were plastic windows and doors on the side toward their house because they make everyday noises but directed at me. I come home from walk or work only than 5 minutes later they drag their trash can, only after I come out they slam something in their yard, after I go to terrace, after I show myself at the window. Little by little I retreat more and more inside with windows hermetically closed. Only than I really relax. But they started to intersect my path in front of my house when I go out or to work. They are 6 adults, 3 generations, and teen girl. It is really immposible so many coincedences. More and more I feel like a prisoner. What to do?

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19lottie82 · 18/03/2020 15:49

Your post is a bit confusing OP. Are you saying that they are using what should be everyday noises to try to intimidate you?

Isthisokay · 18/03/2020 15:54

How do you know these noises aren't happening when you aren't there if you see what I mean? You may be giving these small things too much though.

margarre · 18/03/2020 16:06

That would be great. That I only imagine it is orchestrated. When I only come home their yard is empty and quiet, but few minutes more or less later someone comes out and start doing something. They yell at their new small dog too. They "walk" it also when I come home in front of my house door. Luckily I like that dog and I don't mind its bark. At least something.

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SmallChickBilly · 18/03/2020 16:09

Do you think you could resolve it? Perhaps not on your own, but with mediation? What are the historic fights about? Other than that, could you move? Do you want to?

margarre · 18/03/2020 16:42

Only if I win the lottery I would buy myself flat or house. Historic fights were about they park their car close to our house - court order was they have no right to park there or bring car inside the gate because it's our land and they also don't have a garage that would make necessity to only pass toward their part of the yard. They to this day park sometimes but not as much like before that court order. Than one of them almost ran over my dad by motorbike in front of our house. That was also in court, I don't know the verdict. Lastly I went naively to clean second terrace and trespass over their part of the yard, one son in law of theirs attacked me, he ripped my shirt. That son in law later attacked their daughter and they escorted him out of the house and they got divorce. There is God. That was in 2010. Long time ago, everything fresh in my mind.

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