Not really an AIBU but not sure where to post.
Over a year ago my husband and I bought our first home, when we looked round it was what we dreamed of. When we finally moved in after long delays with the seller (who seemed ok at the time), it was like the money pit . Absolute disaster, the previous owner had left piles of rubbish hidden in the wardrobes, the garage was full of crap he’d left behind that he said he would take, he left rubbish hidden under rubble in the garden , a mattress behind the shed. Everything was falling apart . We had decorators come and they said he did a ‘good job at hiding the poor condition of the house when you looked round’. When we told the solicitors they said we couldn’t claim anything as we had exchanged contracts , but none of this was there when we moved in. Anyway a year later we’ve sorted the mess, renovated the house. All is fine. We still receive what seem like important letters for the previous owner that we always return to sender again which is a pain but they just keep coming. We had some parcels arrive for him last year in April, about 4 months after we’d moved in so we gave him the benefit of the doubt that he’d not changed all his details everywhere. These were massive parcels , I’m talking some being 5ft tall, very heavy, not easy to carry to the post office. I contacted him at his business that he owns (he said I could when we moved in should we need to) asking him what he’d like me to do with it and and he just turned up, and said ‘let’s have a look at what work you’ve done then’ and started to walk in. I was home alone and I said ‘it’s our house now I’d rather you don’t come in, here’s yours parcel’ and he said ‘why... are you scared?’ He lent in and went ‘it smells nice anyway, I can smell fresh paint’ . I told my husband and he said don’t contact him again and don’t answer the door if I’m home alone to him.
Anyway we’ve had more parcels come over time and he’s just turned up for them, saying he knows they’re here as if we’ve been hiding them but we haven’t , we’ve contacted the delivery companies and we’ve left them by the side of the house for collection and he claimed we shouldn’t do that because they’re expensive .
And again today another one has come but in the name of his son now, what do I do with it as It was just posted through, it’s a small parcel so fit through the letterbox so we didn’t see who delivered it and it’s just wrapped up with a sticker saying tracked , and his name, it doesn’t same Hermes or anything so I don’t know who to contact ?
I’m scared they’ll turn up as I’m pregnant and feel more vulnerable .
Sorry it’s long
Thanks in advance