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To be terrified I have cancer - HPV related

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Insomnia1230 · 12/03/2020 00:10

Recently diagnosed with high risk HPV through a routine smear. High grade cell changes found in my cervix, requires treatment which the hospital have informed me is really effective.

I know I should be happy and relieved it’s been detected and it’s treatable, but since I got my results I have been overwhelmed with dread. I can’t stop crying.

I was directed to a cervical cancer information website which had lots of useful information about the abnormal cells and the treatment I will be having - but it also had a page on other HPV related cancers. Anal, vaginal, and several head and neck cancers.

I am completely terrified that I may now end up with another form of cancer. My body wasn’t able to throw off this HPV before it caused severe abnormalities to my cervix - so could the same be happening all over my body, in my mouth, throat, anus, and wherever else HPV infects?

I cannot sleep or function. Sad

It doesn’t help that I had what I thought were piles after DC1 and now I’ve realised those symptoms mirror anal cancer. I really can’t explain how completely scared and broken I feel right now.

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nsav · 12/03/2020 00:11

Sending so much love!!

Haggisfish · 12/03/2020 00:14

It’s so unlikely to affect other cells. I understand your fears but they are over inflated. Treatment for cervical abnormalities is really successful. Sending hugs. I’d ask about your concerns when you go for your treatment.

Insomnia1230 · 12/03/2020 00:14

Thank you

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Insomnia1230 · 12/03/2020 00:17

Thank you @Haggisfish . I’m less worried about my cervix as they’ve found the problem it’s all the other places it could be which they don’t screen for Sad I’ve been with the same partner for a while and know I must have the HPV in other places just based on the sexual contact we’ve had.

I really wish I hadn’t read up on it tonight. I don’t think I will get much sleep now.

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bottleofbeer · 12/03/2020 00:19

If it's caught in time it's very treatable. I know you're scared but it's ok x

Rosspoldarkssaddle · 12/03/2020 00:19

They have caught it early. Cone biopsy/deep needle diathermy/laser is very effective as they zap an area outside the area affected for clearance. Very effective. You then get follow up smears closer together to ensure it has taken. Had dnd twice under general and have been 30 years clear now.

Insomnia1230 · 12/03/2020 00:27

Thank you I’m just so worried of how much harm this virus can cause. Sad

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Insomnia1230 · 12/03/2020 00:41

Lying down unable to sleep with my heart racing.

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Bex4567 · 28/12/2022 17:29

How did you get on after may I ask

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