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To think colleague is angry with me ?

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Username109876 · 03/03/2020 19:34

We work with young people with behavioural issues. She called an 11 year-old boy over that I was teaching to speak to her. It was a challenging class and I was dealing with other behaviour.
The boy walked back in and next minute they were all clapping. I didn't know why but told them they needed to be quiet and stop.
Again this teacher called the student out, appparently walking back into my room he had said something really vile about her, but I had not heard this. This is why they were clapping.
What he said was very unkind and the teacher rightfully recorded the incident.

I went to go and speak to her later on but couldn't find her. I emailed saying that I had not realised what the boy said and that I was very sorry that he had been so rude to her, that I did not want her to think I had heard and ignored his rude comment, and that I appreciated her recording it.

She never replied and looked really off with me when I passed her.

I would never knowingly let a child speak badly about a staff member and do nothing about it, I just did not hear what he said.

OP posts:
MT2017 · 03/03/2020 19:59

I think you did enough to show you supported her. If she looked fed up maybe she was just having a bad day - I don't think she is annoyed with you.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 03/03/2020 20:04

Is it possible that youre reading something that isnt there? She might not know how to reply to that email.

For the sake of argument lets say she is being off. You proactively sought her and apologised and explained the situation. If she still has a problem, then its hers to deal with. Not yours. What else could you possibly do to fix this? Please dont waste any more energy on this!

MouthBreathingRage · 03/03/2020 20:07

Oh, you again. I really dont understand why AIBU draws in so many teachers looking for 'professional advice'. Are you going to post here every time you over think something that happens at your school?

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