Basically I joined it. Started speaking to a guy he lived in the same town. Cut a long story short we had mutual friends and some people who I knew he went to school with. I clarified with them that they did and they said they knew him. So after a while we added each other on Facebook and chatted on there. We had great conversations as they were lengthy paragraphs maybe 3-4 a day, which is nice compared to the short few word messages. Said on his Tinder he was looking for someone. No sex chat just normal conversation. I then see on his Facebook he must of become single very recently like only a few weeks, massive red flag in my eyes as it was a few years he was with her. But I thought at least he's not cheating. He was saying about how we can do this that and the other in the future like go to this place and that place, and saying about things we could do together if we met. Not dirty things like normal things. Today I asked how long he had been single for and he said it and it was as I guessed then he said he's not looking for anything? Please tell me not all men are like this? I don't really know what else to put other than I'm pissed off. Why waste my time! I came out of a 4 year relationship a year ago where he cheated the whole time and it really pushed my hopes down and I just feel like I'm gonna be on my own forever. I'm late 20's.