Some back story, haven't had the best relationship with my Dad and Stepmother since he left when i was 9(Always been me going to him even on my birthdays). He remarried when i was 12/13 (now 22). Relationship got better 5 years ago, with me starting to talk to him first. It's never been the best relationship but I thought it was getting better when i got married(Stepmother got mad at a few wedding things). Anyway... I had a baby 8 weeks ago and he's see her three times, the day she came home and then a week later when I took her to him, and then again 2 days after that, again me taking her to him. I've tried multiple times to arrange something so he can spend time with her. If i text I get a reply 8 hours later or not at all, he doesn't answer if i call. The same goes for my stepmother. They are not busy people, both very part time work. It's feels like I'm the only one putting any effort in. Should I say something or just not bother anymore? I love my dad but this is just to much, they already have 2 grandchildren they don't see, what's one more.
AIBU for not trying anymore?