When did you have your first argument.

[Bathbedandbeyond]

6 months into a new relationship, not a single disagreement or cross word. He doesn’t irritate me at all and he claims the same.

AIBU to think that this is unusual or so people not argue until later in a relationship

Exactly the same OP
DP (soon to be DH!) and I have been together nearly 2 years and never had a disagreement, let alone an argument.

12 years and I’m still waiting 🤷‍♀️ Not unusual imo...

We've been together 7.5 years and have only had one argument. We don't live together though and only spend every other weekend together which probably helps! After our one and only argument I think we both thought it was over because it was so traumatic

Together over a year and not had a proper argument. Couple of minor disagreements but nothing worth raising voices over.

My ex (who was an abusive alcoholic) used to pick fights all the time and I thought that was normal for ages.

I was feeling smug about 5 months without an argument, but realising that’s the norm

Well we probably have about 4-6 a day so this is making me feel pretty shitty 😂

We didn't ever argue... until we had children...

9 years and never argued. We both grew up with parents who argued everyday and both hate it.

9 months in, we argued over a game of Articulate. Apparently I should have described Beethoven as a dog rather than listing his symphonies we have been together 7 years and are married with a gorgeous DD and even now we don't argue about anything important (or much at all really!)

After about 4 years when we'd only just moved house and dc2, who was still a tiny 6 week old baby, woke in the night. For some reason (possibly the depression) I got a right strop on because I'd been woken up so shouted as I went downstairs. Dh took over getting the bottle ready and feeding the baby and we had our first ever shouting argument.

The time after that was when we went to Clumber Park on a hot bank holiday in May 5 or so years ago. It was very busy and we were very stressed and argued the whole time. The trip lasted an hour before we turned around and went home.

We made it to 8 years, never had an argument, then had children and felt like divorcing him in the first year