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Some people defeat the object of cloth nappies

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lineandsinker · 21/02/2020 23:03

My baby has been in cloth nappies for a few months and so I have signed up to a few advice and selling groups on Facebook and Instagram to help me along the way.

What has struck me is that there are quite a few parents out there who see cloth nappies as some form of collectors item and seek to have every print from certain brands; I’ve seen quite a few parents with upwards of 50+ nappies in their collection for 1 child. Many people openly admit to being ‘addicted to cloth’ and having tens of nappies more than they actually need.

There is one certain brand of cloth nappy whose products are hard to come by; when they are restocked in the UK, stockists’ websites crash and nappies are sold on at far higher than their RRP on Facebook and eBay. People seem to buy multiple of them just because they want to be seen to own this brand and then try and sell them on at inflated prices because ‘they bought too many of the same print’.

AIBU to think that this defeats the point of cloth nappies, which is to be more environmentally friendly? Surely your carbon footprint is just as big for owning tens of nappies that get used sporadically than that of someone who is using disposables. It just seems like it’s another industry being driven by greed / fashion and status.

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IndecentFeminist · 23/02/2020 19:24

Nah, I feel the same about stupid little porcelain things for example, but people collect them. At least nappies or wraps serve a purpose

ballroompink · 23/02/2020 20:18

PPs are spot on about all these communities I think - ethical products, slings and wraps, scandi/organic clothes, wooden toys...I joined loads of them when DS was a baby as in theory they were to do with things I was into/liked but the hoarding of stuff, posting pics of 'stashes', bragging about amounts spent with the constant 'don't tell hubby!'/'my partner is going to go mad if he sees this!' comments, the grabbiness on sales posts...I just found it all quite weird and annoying after a while. It used to make me sad when people would be selling toys/clothes to fund an unexpected expense as well. I'm still in one group related to a particular handmade clothes brand and the way people move so fast to spend £££ when there's a sale or a 'drop' is mind-boggling. But so easy to see how people get sucked into it as well. I definitely felt like it could have happened to me with wooden toys a couple of years back.

LolaSmiles · 23/02/2020 20:32

It absolutely does seem different; they’re nappies
At least they're getting used.

Personally collecting old stamps in books or comic book character figurines that remain inside their original packaging never to be used seems a lot more bizarre.

Mossyfern · 24/02/2020 17:07

so easy to see how people get sucked into it as well

I think part of it is that being a new mum is such a shock to your identity, and can stop you taking part in the hobbies you used to have. So taking part in these communities gives you a sense of belonging and a hobby again.

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