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To wonder what kids (and some parents) nowadays would think of books like Malory Towers...

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PlinkiePlonk · 20/02/2020 18:07

I am reading this with my DD as I loved it as a kid. Only just started book one when the kids are dropped off for the first time. Half of the first chapter was one girl (Alicia) taking the mickey of another (Gwendoline Mary) for the fact that she had such a tearful goodbye with her mum as opposed to just being a ‘good sort’ and getting on with it.

It just made me think we are all so far the other way now.... i had a military childhood so I still think a bit that people do need to just get on with it (then I do something completely helicopter parent so not exactly immune). However, I can’t help but think all our tears for our children doing perfectly normal things like going to school or growing up aren’t helping them be self sufficient. It just makes me wonder if books like this would now be seen as really harsh by society whilst actually there is a balance?

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OnlyFoolsnMothers · 20/02/2020 19:50

I hated Malory towers and I’m in my 30s, my niece who’s 9 loves them!

mantarays · 20/02/2020 19:50

I can't even bloody swim grin

You’d have been chucked in the deep end by Darrell and Alicia and told to “dry up”. 😂

restawhile77 · 20/02/2020 19:52

As a child I always wanted to go to Mallory Towers, Darryl, Gwen, Bill, just a few names I recall. Grin

restawhile77 · 20/02/2020 19:53

Alicia, forgotten her.

FearOfTheDuck · 20/02/2020 19:53

I read and loved them as a child, but I enjoyed them very much as fiction. As a sensitive little girl who hated sports I certainly wouldn't have wanted to go anywhere near a real-life Malory Towers! I remember feeling very sorry for Gwendoline - yes, she had a few nasty traits, but so did most of the characters and they weren't judged nearly so harshly for them!

mantarays · 20/02/2020 19:56

yes, she had a few nasty traits, but so did most of the characters and they weren't judged nearly so harshly for them!

But that’s because of how those character traits were categorised. Spite and sneakiness were considered more problematic than a bad temper in a basically good person.

ShinyMe · 20/02/2020 19:57

@AbsentmindedWoman it's on tour this summer, don't think it's doing London. I'm seeing it again in Manchester.

pussycatinboots · 20/02/2020 19:57

...midnight feasts...apple pie beds...the san...the splashery...girls with proper boys names...stabling your own horse...snow...sneaking out to swim at night...Grin
God how i wanted to be at St Clares, Mallory Towers and the Chalet School all at the same time, obvs
Am I too old to apply (48)??

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 20/02/2020 19:58

I can always tell when dd1(19) is tired or stressed because she reads through Malory Towers/St. Clare’s.

She also reads Tennis Shoes, and then spends the next couple of days huffing about the unfairness of umbrellas.

Iliketeaagain · 20/02/2020 20:00

My 10 yo loves Malory towers and st clares - she has "modern" versions, so the language that's not appropriate any more is changed - a bit like has been done with the newer versions of the faraway tree series.

And she loved the musical when I took her to see it a couple of months ago ( I was a bit meh about it, but she thought it was marvellous!)

Eeyoresstickhouse · 20/02/2020 20:01

I love these books and can't wait to read them to my daughter. I really wish they had made a TV series based on the books. A missed opportunity.

Rayn · 20/02/2020 20:02

I loved them. I always remember that the young girls had to do jobs for the older girls and they were always eating anchovies on toast.

Might have to give them a try again!

FearOfTheDuck · 20/02/2020 20:02

True, mantarays. I read them in the 1990s so by that time there was quite a bit of values dissonance.

I actually think the St Clare's books were even worse for that in parts. I remember being very confused that the twins were considered stuck-up for not happily cleaning the sixth-formers' muddy boots! Obviously as an adult looking back I have more of an idea about boarding school customs of the era, but as an 8-year-old I just thought well, I wouldn't do that either, they've got some self-respect! Grin

Lou3don · 20/02/2020 20:03

Just William for me! Very upper middle class, but still just a little boy!

AbsentmindedWoman · 20/02/2020 20:04

You’d have been chucked in the deep end by Darrell and Alicia and told to “dry up”

No doubt Grin

The categorisation of character traits is interesting isn't it.

Darrell lashing out with a few slaps - well, that'd be assault and a serious matter now. As it should be. Alicia has manipulative tendencies, and she definitely knocks great amusement out of being fairly unkind to people who aren't as quick with a witty remark.

But as a kid, I thought Darrell and Alicia sounded like a lot of fun, and forgave all their mean streaks.

mantarays · 20/02/2020 20:05

I remember being very confused that the twins were considered stuck-up for not happily cleaning the sixth-formers' muddy boots! Obviously as an adult looking back I have more of an idea about boarding school customs of the era, but as an 8-year-old I just thought well, I wouldn't do that either, they've got some self-respect!

Whereas I kind of took from it that it was a wheel turning thing. You start lower down and as you get older and contribute more in other ways others do things for you.

BUT if someone expected me to clean their boots I’d tell them to get to fuck now. 😂

mantarays · 20/02/2020 20:06

The categorisation of character traits is interesting isn't it.

Very. I do think a bad temper in youth is forgivable. But then I think most things in youth are forgivable.

restawhile77 · 20/02/2020 20:06

Darrell always seemed very goody goody and didn’t suffer fools gladly.

InTheWalls · 20/02/2020 20:06

@ladykuga I loved Trebizon. DD is reading them now, so am revisiting them. They've aged well!

We've also read all the Malory Towers books together. Love a boarding school story!

pussycatinboots · 20/02/2020 20:08

Oh yeah, the anchovies...Envy

AbsentmindedWoman · 20/02/2020 20:08

@ShinyMe thank you, must look into it!

Youngatheart00 · 20/02/2020 20:09

Absolutely loved both Mallory Towers and St Claire’s. Also, does anyone remember The Naughtiest Girl in the School series (also Enid Blyton). Agree that some of the content is probably now dated but that is part of history/culture and I don’t believe should be edited for today’s audience.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 20/02/2020 20:09

I loved Claudette in St Clares

PrincessHoneysuckle · 20/02/2020 20:10

Sorry Claudine

Thehop · 20/02/2020 20:12

These books guaranteed my years at boarding school were a total let down 😂