3 years ago we were expecting first baby.
SIL kindly offered us their baby bits which they no longer needed as weren’t planning more children.
We had already bought some bits and so didn’t want or need everything.
SIL kept giving and said anything we didn’t want to get rid of as she would t be anting it back.
Lots of the things were well used and some things were out of date from safety recommendations.
A week after I gave birth they found out they were pregnant with unplanned baby and asked by text for everything back.
Not too much of a problem as half of it we hadn’t even started using yet and so we bought replacements for the bits we did need to use and handed over everything else.
Except for the bits that we had already gotten rid of.
SIL was so cross and rude to us about this and bombarded me with long messages saying we were lying that we didn’t have it all and demanded we look harder in our loft for bits.
At this point she was still only about 6 weeks pregnant.
I was 2 weeks post c section and hardly able to move.
Eventually she started demanding money for the bits she said we had, some bits which I don’t even remember having.
Eventually we gave her husband (my DH’s brother) some money to shit the whole thing up.
The whole thing was rediculous and was the most stressful part about being a new mother for sure.
She blocked both DH and I on Facebook and even 3 years later things are very strained.
This is partly because I am still fuming with her.
AIBU for still feeling angry and hurt by this nearly 3 years later?
I’m coming up to giving birth to DC2 so it’s bought it all back and I’m partly looking forward to having the chance of the first few weeks without being bombarded by nasty texts but also still hurt.