Me and DH have a 2yo (3 in may) and our daughter turns 1 in two weeks.
DH works away 4 days a week and is home 4 days a week and is currently doing his driving lessons only on the days he's at home, 2 hours of lessons every day he's home.
He's booked for 4 hours of lessons in day for the 4 days he's off the week of DD 1st birthday, including her first birthday, they're pretty crap hours he's picked like 11-1pm then 3-5pm that day.
I told him should of tried to get really early lessons or really late ones because now we're not really going to get to do anything for her birthday as a family (now planning to do something just me and DC.)
I know it's her first birthday and she doesn't know any different but we did something for DS first birthday but he also missed his second birthday too.
Aibu?