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AIBU?

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Aibu to think shes a selfish cow?

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Confusedandhurt75 · 17/02/2020 22:25

Basically been friends with this person for about 11 years she moved away 5 years ago with her bf got pregnant and came back just b4 DC was due, he up and left her for another woman.
I supported her through it all helping out whenever I could (I have 2DCs myself) she got pregnant by him again but I stood by her and helped her during the pregnancy.
I was looking after her child and helping her clean her house quite frequently, never asked for anything in return. Before her DC2 was due he appeared back at her door, I just told her to be careful but that I'd always be here.
I then found out I was pregnant bit of a shock, had horrendous sickness and not once has she bothered to pop round or ask how I'm feeling yet I have messaged her asking if shes okay after 70 fb posts about men being shit. Cant help but feel because I'm no use to her shes not bothered about me.

AIBU in thinking that shes selfish? Not sure if it's my hormones but the lack of support in return has left me feeling deflated.

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Harriett123 · 17/02/2020 22:42

Yeah she sounds like a bit of a user.

Commonwasher · 17/02/2020 22:44

Or totally self absorbed.

I’d stop responding or texting and concentrate on your own well-being x

idontlike789 · 17/02/2020 22:50

God I hate those people, 1 friend of mine particularly likes to go on social media to say she's ill etc but won't reply to my messages . Phase her out she's a user , unfortunately so many people think friendship is a one way street.

TheBigFatMermaid · 17/02/2020 22:52

You need to find better friends!

Confusedandhurt75 · 17/02/2020 23:02

Thank you guys! Guess I just needed to check I wasnt being hormonal lol I think the past few months has opened my eyes up to how one sided it has been for a while.

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