Miserable life

[sravani0]

I'm 23 female. My 2 years relationship has been ended few days back since he can't marry me without me converting into his religion. My mom found out my dad is cheating on her. My relatives started false alligations on me saying i had relationships and my character is bad. They never personally know whats happening in my life. Yet they are spreading rumors. I don't have a peace of mind. I'm going through hell.

Are you from a culture we're having sex outside of marriage is considered really wrong?

You can't take on your Mum's stuff, just be supportive and try not to worry.

If you don't want to convert to his religion, then we're you in love with him?

To be fair, he could marry you without you converting, he just doesn’t choose to.

Bless you, sounds like your really going through the mill at the moment, try and find some silver linings in your life, maybe this relationship wasn't meant to be in the end for a reason. Can you talk to your family and ask them why they are saying the things they are and how it's making you feel ?

Honestly OP at 23 you are young and beautiful and have your life ahead of you. Please never let other people get you down! Youth is the most precious thing. I know life can be hard, but (although this will sound cheesy) have faith in yourself and move on. You will meet the right person. AND you know what, even if you don't, marriage and having kids isn't the be and end all. Sorry about your mum. That is a shame that your father doesn't respect her more but give her all the love you have.

Sounds like your boyfriend has quite powerful/ controlling parents. Its important to be you. Don't let anyone make you be anything other than you. Be strong. Tough times.

@sravani0 Aww, you poor thing. I'm so sorry your life is not so good right now. It will get better I promise.

Good for you for not converting to this man's religion. You didn't want to, you would never have been happy!

Look after yourself.