Expeting DH to flush the toilet evrytime he uses it?

[ConnorTraceptive]

Dh is terrible for not flushing the loo after he's had a wee. HIs main excuses are:

"It was in the night I didn't want to wake you up"

well you did wake me up stomping around to get there so flush it anyway and the smell of your congialed {sp} first thingin the morning isn't helping my hyperemesis.

or

"I haven't flushed the loo this time because I know I'll need to go again before I go up to bed"

I mean for ffs just flush the f**ing toilet you scummy arse

or AIBU?

PMSL

Ok once hyperemesis is gone I will agree to more environmentally friendly flushing habits.

But not in the downstairs toilets that visitors have to use.

downstairs toilets? where do i think i live?
toilet singular.

Nah, most people have agreed that given your circumstances YANBU

YANBU in the case of morning sickness, other than that i would say yabu, i dont flush the loo every time we go, unless it is more solid than a wee! esp with dd (2.10) who doesnt even colour the water!!

Oh the queen doesn't have downstairs toilets, darling; she has downstairs lavatories!

you should flush its really horrid not too and grown man too!

modern toilets have half and full flush, couldnt they adapt older toilets to do something like this

ken livingstone suggested not flushing a while back its a joke not hygenic ...shudders...

Always flush poo, but wee is sterile and if you use an eco-friendly cleaning product, doesn't smell (or non eco-friend, but that would be defeating the object!).

we compromise. No flushing except at the end of the night so that it doesn't really stink in the morning. If either of us get up at night, we don't flush.

I think yabu
what a waste of water to flush it every time you have a wee.