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Lucylou1984 · 17/02/2020 16:14

Hello Mumsnetters,

This is my first post, so not sure if I'm posting this in the correct place.

I'm looking for some advice. I'm wondering if I can claim under Schedule 1 of The Children's Act.

My ex partner and I split up a few years ago, we have 3 children. He's self employed and over the years child maintenance has dwindled. When we were together he earned over 150k however now he's claiming he earns about £20k. However he somehow lives a very lavish lifestyle, lives in a big house, drives a v nice BMW, numerous holidays with/without kids. I've told CMS that he must have hidden his money but they haven't found anything.

I've spent all my savings on providing for the children over the years but money has still been really tight and a constant worry. The house is in need of repairs and the children's needs are changing and they are getting more expensive now they are teenagers. We haven't been on holiday since we split up. They live a very modest lifestyle with me and a lavish lifestyle with my ex.

I wonder if I can claim for top up maintenance and/or lump sums like repairs to the house, holiday, and a top up to the maintenance?

Has anyone had any success claiming through Schedule 1 when their ex earns about £150k? I've heard he needs to be earning over £200k, is this true?

He is remarried so I'm not sure if that helps/hinders our case.

I will be self-representing as I can't afford a solicitor. Am I mad??

Thanks so much for your help :)

OP posts:
BrieAndChilli · 17/02/2020 16:36

surely if hes hidden his money/changed the way hes paid so it only looks like he earns £20k any application you make also wont be successful?

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