I was very close friends with someone. Best friends even. We were in daily contact, whether it was text, phone or in person. About six months ago I stopped hearing from him. Every week or so I’d text him to ask if he was alright and also asked if I’d done something to upset him. He claimed I hadn’t. Months have gone by and I haven’t seen him. Any text I send is responded to with a brief answer with no real room for a conversation. I left it about a month and again asked if I’d upset him, to which he said no. Today I asked him if he’d like to come shopping with me (we used to do this a lot) and he replied that he was busy, but didn’t elaborate other than to say it was ‘fun when we used to do it.’ Erm..
A few years ago he made a comment that suggested he liked me more than a friend, which I brushed off as a joke and our friendship continued as usual. Maybe he was more serious than I thought? I’ve also had some health issues which maybe he was fed up of. I’m grasping at straws.
I’m a bit hurt by the whole thing. WIBU to tell him this and try to get to the bottom of it or should I just accept he doesn’t want to speak to me for whatever reason and give up quietly?