Put in AIBU for traffic. Friend in very short term (but already cohabiting) relationship. There is clearly an alcoholism problem, a possessiveness problem, an anger problem followed by massive lovebombing. I think coercive control is beginning too. What on earth can I do to help? They are rarely apart (unless she is at work) because he cannot handle it. When I spend an hour with her every few weeks he continuously texts her. I am really worried but feel at a loss to do anything other than tell her my thoughts and concerns (which I have done in the aftermath of one of their massive rows). But today he has love bombed her (yet again. ) This is only going to get worse and I told her that he will try to cut her off from anybody close to her as well. Any advice or previous experience out there?