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People leaving belongings in changing rooms to reserve them at swimming pools

139 replies

Bellad19 · 13/02/2020 09:11

So our local swimming pool have just refurbed the changing rooms. There are no communal areas to get changed at all, it’s very small in there. There’s cubicles for individual people and then 2 really large family sized changing rooms. (Disabled changing rooms are also available separate from the 2 family ones) then there’s a couple of rows of lockers so there isn’t really any room for you to get changed out in the open and no benches for you to put stuff on so even if you were to squeeze in a corner you’d have to put your clothes etc on the floor.
We are a family of 5, we have 3 young children. When getting out of the pool it’s always amazing if we manage to get a family changing room as we fit all of us in and husband and I can quickly get all of the children changed before sorting ourselves out and they have a baby changing table in there too! We normally do try and get out of the pool 10 mins before the session ends so we can get a family changing room and be done before everyone else gets out so someone else can use it. On the occasions family changing rooms haven’t been available, I’ve gone in a small individual cubicle, had to leave the door open as no room, get 2 children dressed and my husband gets the other one dressed and then I watch all 3 children(while I’m still in my swimming costume) while my husband gets dressed and then he takes them out to the cafe while I get dressed.(or vice versa) It’s fine just a bit more hassle! Sorry for such a long back story I was just trying to set the scene 😂 but I was just wondering on peoples opinions on the correct swimming pool ‘etiquette’ I guess is the right word for it?
Last weekend when we went, we got out of the pool ten minutes early as usual and both family changing rooms had people’s belongings left in them, I would assume to ‘reserve’ the changing room? Another lady who got out at the same time as us went and informed reception about the changing room she was trying to use and the manager came and put all the belongings from the changing room into a basket and left it outside the door so the lady could use it, manager says she doesn’t condone this and there are signs asking people to please not do it. By this point we already had 2/3 kids dressed in one of the smaller changing rooms so we just carried on without mentioning that the other changing room was also ‘reserved’
I guess I’m just wondering what people’s opinions on reserving changing rooms are? I don’t think we are entitled to a big changing room just because we have children, it’s first come first served, but i don’t like causing a fuss and would feel a bit wary of using a changing room with other people’s belongings in!
Sorry this is so long winded, I’ve tried to word it as best as I can and explain myself so I don’t get any hate lol. This is my first
Time posting xx

OP posts:
Redwoodmaz · 13/02/2020 09:14

Surely the lockers are for people's things to go in? They are being cheeky.

InDubiousBattle · 13/02/2020 09:16

Of course you can't reserve a changing room!

CafetièreCoffee · 13/02/2020 09:17

Move them to an empty locker and listen to the panic later on.

MatildaTheCat · 13/02/2020 09:18

I would like their belongings up at any convenient (to me) place outside of the locker room. They wouldn’t be able to prove who had done it. And complain to management each and every time.

Same as I wouldn’t sit on the ground if there are ‘reserved’ sun beds by a hotel pool.

Bellad19 · 13/02/2020 09:18

Thank you guys for the replies! I’m glad it’s not just me being annoyed over nothing! Xx

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Taytotots · 13/02/2020 09:19

No they shouldn't be doing this. It's extremely selfish. People used to do it at my old pool but it had loads of changing rooms so not really an issue but sounds like space really tight at your pool. If it's not too much hassle report it and get the manager or other staff to do the basket thing. Maybe they will get the message after a while? You could also make a written complaint so it is logged. Or social media post?

ThursdayLastWeek · 13/02/2020 09:19

People do this during children’s swimming lessons too and it does my nut.

I’ve never been brave enough to just shut DS and I in a cubicle that has someone else’s stuff in but I really want to.

See also; parents who allow their children to have a full 10 minute shower in spite of all the shivering children waiting very patiently to rinse off.

bebanjo · 13/02/2020 09:19

I think I would just go ahead and use the large changing room.
If you can put all the stuff to one side then do so, if not just don’t get your stuff mixed up with theres.

If they complained presumably the manager will just tell them they should not be leaving there stuff in there.

It’s not just you who are being inconvenienced. If it’s out of use for an hour that could be several family’s struggling.

Bellad19 · 13/02/2020 09:21

I will report to the manager if it happens again, I’m pregnant so thought maybe I was just being hormonal and getting overly annoyed about something small! I don’t like confrontation so would hate the family who ‘reserved’ the changing room to start a row 🙈😂 x

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Stayawayfromitsmouth · 13/02/2020 09:21

This is very annoying. Staff should be checking regularly with signs to say any stuff left will be removed to a basket.

Selfsettling3 · 13/02/2020 09:22

Put their stuff in a locker or on the damp floor outside and use the changing room.

user18463585026 · 13/02/2020 09:23

If you report it every time then the management has a more complete view of the scale of the problem and has the opportunity to act. If you don't then they're reasonable to assume things are working as they should without issues.

Bellad19 · 13/02/2020 09:24

user18463585026
That’s a very good point! I never thought about it like that

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TimeToChangeNameAgain · 13/02/2020 09:24

People do this at our local pool and I just go in and change in them anyway. It’s so selfish and there are hundreds of lockers that you can stick your stuff in. As yet no one has ever called me out on changing in a room full of people’s stuff.

ImFreeToDoWhatIWant · 13/02/2020 09:24

When people do this I give zero fucks about dumping their stuff on the floor outside. Only ever been challenged once, I just replied through the door that she should learn to read the signs then, and to go and get management of she was that bothered. She didn't.

DdraigGoch · 13/02/2020 09:25

I would be handing the stuff in as lost property.

Balkinfly · 13/02/2020 09:25

I almost came to blows with a mum at a swimming class.

Every week they would 'reserve' their cubicle with their swimming stuff. Lots of other mums did the same so every week I would wait.

One week, I thought, I have had enough and moved their stuff outside the door and got my DS changed. She came back and called me all the names under the sun - quite embarrassing really. I made a complaint and the next week there were massive notices all around the changing room advising people not to leave things in the changing room and to leave them in the lockers. Grin

SoftBlocks · 13/02/2020 09:25

See also; parents who allow their children to have a full 10 minute shower in spite of all the shivering children waiting.

Infuriating.

cologne4711 · 13/02/2020 09:26

Yep happens all the time - very irritating. Not so bad if they're in the shower and have put their things in there for the few minutes that takes but not if they do it for an hour while they are in the pool!

And people use lockers and don't lock them (I take my items poolside if I have forgotten my £1 for the locker). I just find it really annoying to be opening door after door and there are things inside.

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 13/02/2020 09:30

People do that with the bigger changing rooms during lessons at our pool too... Usually the people with one older child who can get themselves changed. Luckily mine are 6&8 and can go in an individual one by themselves while I lurk just outside (I do proper showers when we get home, so it's just a quick dry and into tracksuits. But the ones with younger children struggle sometimes.

Balkinfly · 13/02/2020 09:32

She even said "I hope you haven't been going through my stuff stealing things. You are disgusting and should be ashamed of yourself!" Poor DS aged 5 was really confused. She was a complete idiot and had no care for the little ones listening. So I am of the opinion that the people that do this really are selfish, nasty pieces of work, and absolutely need calling out on this behaviour.

I take pleasure in moving their stuff now. Wink

sashh · 13/02/2020 09:34

I'd ignore the clothes and just use the changing room.

If I was feeling generous I might put their things in a basket.

RainbowAlicorn · 13/02/2020 09:35

It drives me mad when people do this, most places don't like you too, not only for the reserving point but it makes it easier for items to get stolen.

JacquesHammer · 13/02/2020 09:37

It is acceptable to get one's things out of a locker, put in changing room then nip for a quick shower.

It isn't acceptable to leave your things in a changing room throughout your entire swimming time!

InfiniteSheldon · 13/02/2020 09:39

I'd just ignore it and carry on and I'd 100% lock the door if I wanted to but I wouldn't touch or move anyone else's stuff other than to shove it over if I had to

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