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To wonder how a school could get this so wrong

287 replies

Hingeandbracket · 11/02/2020 13:47

And not admit it.
www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/newsbeat-45521094
I am not quick to shout racist but this seems pretty clear cut.

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ProfessorSlocombe · 11/02/2020 15:41

The real story is the way the school slithered out of accepting any liability for the situation meaning they can't even say "lessons will be learned" with the usual insincere intent.

ShirleyPhallus · 11/02/2020 15:42

I am shocked at the article but equally bad some of the comments here. How can anyone excuse this behaviour, it’s so clearly racist!

halcyondays · 11/02/2020 15:44

Yanbu. Braiding takes a very long time doesn’t it and why on earth should anyone have to cover their natural hair with a wig?

Hingeandbracket · 11/02/2020 15:47

Go to Nigeria and children have to plat[sic] their hair when in school. If that is fine in Africa, why not here?
Because this isn't Africa and it's not necessary.

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CoolcoolcoolcoolcoolNoDoubt · 11/02/2020 15:48

@Hagbeth but I bet the white pupils didn't have the same 'tie your hair back' rule.

I have never heard a rule like this in all my life. Surely not too difficult to comprehend, no?

Hagbeth · 11/02/2020 15:50

Here are some rules from Nigeria for example
www.riverbankschools.org/school-policies/uniform-policy/

There are lots of beautiful hair styles that are acceptable
lagosmums.com/back-to-school-hairstyles-for-black-girls/

There's nothing racist in adhering to uniform policy.

Jaxhog · 11/02/2020 15:50

While I do see the point that very big hair can block another pupils' view, surely the answer would be to ask her to tie it back or sit behind other pupils, like you would with a tall pupil.

I also don't see how tying it back would be such a problem?

squizzles · 11/02/2020 15:52

You can't just tie afro hair back in a ponytail. It damages the scalp and causes hair loss. So yeah, a racist rule

Not true at all coming from someone with afro hair. Type 4c.

If her hair is obstructing a pupils view and disrupting their learning then of course she should tie it back.

MouthBreathingRage · 11/02/2020 15:52

@Hagbeth, nice of you to continually ignore how time consuming/expensive/highly damaging it is to constantly style afro hair to 'an acceptable standard'.

madcatladyforever · 11/02/2020 15:52

My sister is mixed race and we never used elastic bands for her hair we used heavy duty hair claws to keep it tidy because she didn't like braids:

To wonder how a school could get this so wrong
NamedyChangedy · 11/02/2020 15:53

That's absolutely ridiculous - you can't possibly specify 'afro hair must be of 'reasonable' length'. What's reasonable? And why only afro hair? So people with longer, yet straight hair are fine, but this girl isn't? It's racist AND stupid. The mind boggles.

Rezie · 11/02/2020 15:53

Ofcourse it is racist. It specified afro hair and not curly hair. But I also don't understand why there needs to be do many rules regarding appearance at school any way

user1471449295 · 11/02/2020 15:58

Awful. Poor girl.

Some of the comments on here are embarrassing too Hmm

Hingeandbracket · 11/02/2020 15:59

There's nothing racist in adhering to uniform policy.

There is if the policy is ridiculous and racist.

Posting stuff from a quick Google of schools in Nigeria isn't the same as a proper comparison by the way. To be honest, there aren't many parts of the Nigerian education system I think we ought to adopt - but in particular daft rules about hair would be low down the list. Not sure why you think it's in any way relevant to school in London.

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PotholeParadise · 11/02/2020 16:00

I couldn't believe they didn't just adjust the seating plan. What do they do for the tall, wide-shouldered boys?

Nat6999 · 11/02/2020 16:01

How do they think schools in the 80's coped when big hairstyles were in fashion? I used to go through a can of hairspray a week.

PotholeParadise · 11/02/2020 16:03

Or 60s beehives, for that matter.

Hagbeth · 11/02/2020 16:04

@PotholeParadise There not allowed to move them because that's racist too!
@MouthBreathingRage I'm sure there are ways to keep black hair tidy for school as well without incurring damage.

Pemba · 11/02/2020 16:05

Poor girl. The school rules were clearly racist. A pity it was settled out of court, as even now the school is not admitting they did anything wrong. They appear to have learnt nothing.

Like a pp said you do tend to get this with academies, the school management let their little power go to their heads and think they can impose anything they like on students, parents and staff.

TheMemoryLingers · 11/02/2020 16:05

Nat6999 Ha, ha, yes. I somehow managed to see around all the huge triangle perms to the board in the 80s. Choking on hairspray in the changing rooms after Games was a hazard, though.

Sally872 · 11/02/2020 16:06

Awful behaviour by the school. Strong girl to have coped so well with this treatment.

PotholeParadise · 11/02/2020 16:08

Hagbeth

Nah. No school that was scared to move a girl with an afro in case it was racist would have ended up in this position.

Looks more like a petty power struggle to me.

LakieLady · 11/02/2020 16:09

The usual 'this isn't racist' brigade will come out in force.

Some people find the concept of institutional discrimination very hard to grasp, for some reason.

ActualHornist · 11/02/2020 16:10

My school never asked me to tie back my hair or said it was blocking the board - mine was at least as big but also twice as long. Also that hair shown in the pics is hardly big!

And I’m white.

BirthdayCakes · 11/02/2020 16:10

What do other black students at this school do? Surely they aren't all being sent home?