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Mussels

234 replies

PossiblyPFB · 09/02/2020 22:01

Fairly trivial but....

We love Mussels and chips (specifically Moules marienère style) in our house and I find them a great dinner party option as an easy but impressive main dish for a crowd, with skinny chips, salad, and French bread to sop up the sauce.

I always check whether anyone has any dietary requirements or particular dislikes to avoid before hosting. Now I find myself having to ask, and so, what’s your view on molluscs, as some people who ‘are easy’ will say actually, yeah, no mussels thanks when I double check.

It’s become apparent to me that mussels (in general, not mine- which are delicious!) .....are very marmite.

So I’m interested in the MN vote......

Mussels are amazing (YANBU)
Mussels are the worst (YABU)
If they are the worst- WHY??? Help me understand!

Thank you in advance!

Smile
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mineofuselessinformation · 09/02/2020 22:36

I could happily eat a kilo of them (in the shell) freshly cooked with wine, garlic, onions and cream!
I'm with you OP, food of the gods!

thenightsky · 09/02/2020 22:36

Bloody love them. Best I've ever had have been in La Touquet, France, and a small café on the West coast of Scotland. Yum.

sandybanana · 09/02/2020 22:37

Am
Intrigued.

Never tried them but the fear of food poisoning would put me off

WarrenNicole · 09/02/2020 22:39

I love mussels. I’m with you OP, they are amazing!

I can’t believe so many posters don’t like mussels. Your loss, more for me!

katy1213 · 09/02/2020 22:40

I love them. Probably wouldn't do them for a dinner party though. I did once get the most frightful food poisoning after ordering them in a dodgy restaurant in Islington. Since closed down, I think; I reported them to the local council who couldn't have cared less.

FlaskMaster · 09/02/2020 22:40

Because they're like fishy slugs in a rock. Fucking disgusting.

PossiblyPFB · 09/02/2020 22:42

In my experience- never buy any that smell fishy, and never eat one that hasn’t opened, and If they are chewy or rubbery at all, they haven’t been cooked well!

I always order them if they are on special at a restaurant- pretty much without fail. I can’t recall having been disappointed and I have gratefully never experienced food poisoning- which I gather is pretty rare - BUT I understand why that would put someone off !!

The ones I serve at home have always been tender, velvety and open, but frankly that could be the ‘problematic’ texture a PP mentioned perhaps. Wink

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MrsEricBana · 09/02/2020 22:46

Interesting reading this. I loved them too then suddenly became allergic to them 18 months ago. Weird. I think detractors find the look of them off putting.

TowerRingInferno · 09/02/2020 22:49

I love them but, having been horribly ill a few months ago after eating some (at a very good restaurant) I’ve taken the decision never to eat them again.

speakout · 09/02/2020 22:50

I love them.

Always buy live, pick them though carefully then keep them overnight in a bucket of cold water with some flour or oatmeal to feed - cleans out the guts,
Wash though- discard dead ones.

Delicious!

WarrenNicole · 09/02/2020 22:50

I’ve never had food poisoning from mussels either, and I eat them regularly.

I have had food poisoning from oysters though. It was happening too often and so I had to give those up. Which I am gutted about because I love an oyster with shallots and Tabasco - mmm.

Bipbipbipbip · 09/02/2020 22:51

I love them. I always order them if they're on a menu when we're out.

I have developed a reaction to whitebait where I just end up vomming after eating them which is a massive shame as they were my other favourite. I hope the seafood gods don't make the same thing happen with moules!

silencebeforethebleeps · 09/02/2020 22:51

Yep - don't cook any that don't close when you tap them, and don't eat any that don't open when you cook them.

PossiblyPFB · 09/02/2020 22:53

We are big oyster fans here as well!

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silencebeforethebleeps · 09/02/2020 22:54

Raw oysters and a shot of gin for breakfast - my family's favourite on special occasions Grin

shinynewapple2020 · 09/02/2020 22:56

As a previous poster says, I'd eat the odd one in a mixed seafood dish, but my DH loves them,'. With lots of crusty bread though, rather than frites.

Don't think I'd risk doing them fir dinner party,

choirmumoftwo · 09/02/2020 22:56

I always loved shellfish, mussels and scallops particularly, then was violently sick after eating a portion of mussels. Put it down to a dodgy one but the same thing happened again but with scallops this t. I think I've developed an allergy as others seem to have done. No problem at all with crustaceans though, at least not yet!

Insaneinthemembury · 09/02/2020 22:56

Love them. And one of the best sources of iron around! (When anaemic I lived on them. Sorted me out quite quickly!)

PammieDooveOrangeJoof · 09/02/2020 22:57

are those that are getting ill drinking alcohol at the same time? Seafood is high in histamine and so is alcohol so can be a bad combination. If I drink champagne and eat lobster I will be sick, have upset stomach and get hives and wheezy but am not allergic to lobster.

FoxRedBitch · 09/02/2020 22:58

I don't eat mussels as I don't like the taste or texture but I adore the sauce, i often get DH to get them and I just dip chips and baguette in the sauce

ColumbaPalumbus · 09/02/2020 23:01

Love them. My kids love them too.

VeryQuaintIrene · 09/02/2020 23:06

Slimy, salty, rubbery, horrid! And it is an insult to vulvas to compare the two.

DramaAlpaca · 09/02/2020 23:07

I can't eat seafood at all, including mussels. I cannot bear the look, smell, texture or taste. Just the smell is enough to make me gag.

Glaciferous · 09/02/2020 23:09

I love all seafood. Well, I love most food really. Bananas and milk can sod off but I'm good with everything else.

DonKeyshot · 09/02/2020 23:10

Although I may occasionally put them on the menu as a starter, I'd never serve mussels as the main course of a dinner party and I'd feel somewhat deprived if they were served to me as a guest.

If served with french fries they have to be moules frites with mayonnaise on the side and optional bread - forget the salad, it has no place with this dish.