He calls me names

[Joanna223]

The father of my 3 year old is very intimidating, we don’t live together but had a relationship of 6 years. But the last 2 years it has been horrible as I pushed myself away from him because he wasn’t very nice to me . I don’t love or want him and I haven’t done for a long time , which he knows but when he wants to see he’s daughter he expects
Me to drop everything and forget everything because he wants things done he’s way . When he doesn’t get he’s way he tells me to F off and calls me names such as idiot , dumb idiot .. etc it’s really making me feel upset . I have stopped talking to him as daughter was ill and he thought I was lying and told me I’m dumb . I told him not to contact me . But this guy is horrible and I’m just afraid of confrontation with him :( someone help give me some advice pls

He is super horrible. Have you got any good mates to support you? Any family? To offer a hand hold if nothing else. This sort of man makes my skin crawl. All strength to you for distancing yourself 💕

He’s clearly still trying to control you.
Do you have a legally defined contact arrangement? If not then it would be in your interest to get one.
I’m sorry that you’re going through this.

Tell him he needs to seek a court order to see your dc. Let a judge deem him worthy...
Your dc will not suffer for not seeing him. Imo.

He's just trying to intimidate you into doing what he wants. As mentioned before, get a formal contact arrangement, and try to make sure you have someone with you when you see him, if you feel intimidated. xx