Last night, while cuddled up to my 14 month old, I could hear banging on the walls, which sounded like they were coming from next door. My partner was downstairs watching TV, it wasn't exactly what I'd call loud. In case it was disturbing our neighbours, I messaged my partner to turn down the volume, which he did.
At about 6pm today, we were all in the living room and heard what I'd refer to as frantic aggressive banging at the front door. My partner went to answer it, it was our neighbour shouting really loudly at him to keep down the noise, he kept shouting, telling my partner that he would break his nose and smash our windows in if we didn't control the noise. He then went for my partner, managing to grab his glasses and dump them in a bush. My partner managed to push him away before he went too far, he was so drunk he landed on his backside. It's not like we ever have lots of people over or loud music. He had also never once left us a note or called to ask us to keep supposed noise down. I've never experienced anything like this!
Our baby is teething, but mostly is settled at night, I always get him back to sleep very quickly as we cosleep and I breastfeed. I'm always conscious of keeping the volume down at night, so as to not wake my partner who works full-time or neighbours.
I'm pretty much in shock. Logged a complaint with police, who wanted to come out tomorrow to talk to us and our neighbours, AIBU to ask them to please not call to us, as I think that this would further aggravate the neighbour !?