My dad has been with a women for a handful of years around 3 if I can recall correctly... she is very needy and whenever they bicker/argue she will text me to moan about it and give me details. I do like the women however I dont think it is fair she always contacts me about their issues. (I will add I am in my 30's with a child of my own.) For a few reasons. For 1 I am his daughter not hers, surely she should co act 1 of her own 4 adult children, or her friends to whinge and moan about her problems and slag off my dad. I've asked her numerous times to not get me involved in the problem, because at the end of the day imo my dads private life is his and well private. Aibu or just a cow.