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To try and dig into a cave below my house?

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TimeToChangeNameAgain · 02/02/2020 21:35

There’s a small network of caves in my town which were open as showcaves until the 80’s but then all shut off. The dad of my dc’s best friend is a keen caver type person and showed my dh a map of these caves which appear to go directly under our garden.

The pair of them plus 4 kids have been in the garden all weekend and managed to dig what looks like a grave. At the moment I’m leaving them to it because I’m assuming they’ll lose interest soon and they’re not actually going to find this bloody cave. The dc’s are so excited about it - convinced that they’re going to have it as the best den ever and find loads of fossils.

They won’t actually suddenly fall into a cave will they? The stuff I can find about the original caves says that they’re granite and limestone - they’re just digging through earth and a few stones at the moment. I’m assuming they would have to actually chisel away loads of rock before they hit a cave but I’m completely clueless. I really don’t care about them digging a hole in the garden but I don’t want them to actually find anything.

Would you try to stop them? Or just leave them digging? They won’t start up again until next weekend and I’m hoping they’ll have lost interest by then and I can turn their grave into a little pond.

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norealshepherds · 04/02/2020 12:29

This sounds ace

BronteSisters · 04/02/2020 13:02

They'll just hit rock. A thick wall of stone that makes the cave roof. Anything softer then it would have caved in already.

Please, before you fill it back in or whatever, don't put in human shaped black bags or anything... or do exactly that and wind the neighbours up.

CrocodilesCry · 04/02/2020 13:06

This is like The Goonies - we need photos please GrinGrinGrin

TimeToChangeNameAgain · 04/02/2020 14:00

Sorry, not going to post photos as I’ve had several messages from people who have worked out exactly where I live Blush. I’m already in enough trouble with the council due to another one of Dh’s ridiculous projects, don’t really fancy getting in more trouble for trying to smash our way into an ancient monument

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MereDintofPandiculation · 04/02/2020 15:05

Your DH sounds like a really interesting person to know!

I don't think the access restrictions were anything to do with its ancient monument status. The tourist industry would take a hit if ancient monuments were out-of-bounds. Damaging is a different matter.

dancingfeathers · 04/02/2020 16:38

We need to know what your DP's other project is!

As hobbies go this has got to be the most interesting and outing

randomchap · 04/02/2020 18:04

Sorry, not going to post photos as I’ve had several messages from people who have worked out exactly where I live

Disappointing, but understandable.

TimeToChangeNameAgain · 04/02/2020 20:46

dancingfeathers we’re already in trouble with the council as we have some trees in our garden that have TPO’s on them. Dh had put a series of zip lines in them but did take them down after a rather stern letter from the council. I was quite relieved as they were pretty high and you’d only stop by slamming into the tree trunk.

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MeridianB · 04/02/2020 21:06

Confession time....When I was in mid-teens a bunch of us tried to break into Chislehurst caves. At night. I am so glad we didn’t succeed.

JKScot4 · 04/02/2020 21:21

I think your DH sounds great, your DC must have lots of fun 😂

MereDintofPandiculation · 04/02/2020 21:30

When I was in mid-teens a bunch of us tried to break into Chislehurst caves. At night. Surely you're not suggesting it'd be scarier to be lost in a cave at night rather than in the daytime? Grin

Though it can be quite strange to come out of a cave at night - the air smells fresh, and the cave roof seems to have stars, and then you realise ...

monstersltd · 04/02/2020 21:54

When I was in mid-teens a bunch of us tried to break into Chislehurst caves. At night

Did you see the ghost?

schoolchoice · 11/02/2020 01:48

Are they still digging op?

Luckystar777 · 11/02/2020 02:33

moronic.

somm · 11/02/2020 02:53

*'Really don’t think they’re in any danger whilst it’s earth and stones.

If they make it to solid rock however, I think some caution would be wise!!

Please do keep us updated op...this is proper good!! —jealous'*

I think it's the complete opposite of this - earth and stones are far more dangerous when digging deep than solid rock. If you want to excavate a cave then please get professionals to do it who can involve your children in a safe way, enabling them to have a fascinating experience. I say this as somebody who has family members whose child died due to digging in a built up mound in a mining area.

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