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Quality time for partner unreasonable demands

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Numum23 · 01/02/2020 20:13

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We had a beautiful baby girl six weeks ago. It was a really rough pregnancy and I was aware that I was constantly moaning about feeling poorly. I am now feeling much better and constantly improving. My partner spoke to me about needing some quality time a few weeks ago. He said he understood that We had the baby and was exhausted but still needed that time. From my point of view I have given him as much time as I can. This weekend he ended the relationship as he said I was unable to give him what he needed with regards time and that it wouldn't change anytime soon so we would always end up at the same place- with him wanting my time. Who has been unreasonable here? I feel that I have given him all I have at the moment.

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OoohTheStatsDontLie · 01/02/2020 21:09

Nobody has time to bloody wash theirselves or brush their hair when they have a 6 week old baby. 'Its not going to change any time soon' well if someone can't wait a few months for sex in a long term relationship for the baby to sleep more than a couple hours at a time then they're too selfish to be bothered with

Crunchymum · 01/02/2020 21:11

Is he the father of your older 2 as well?

Thehop · 01/02/2020 21:14

He’s a monumental cock nostril who’s done you a huge favour.

Stop trying to get this prick to talk to you and get yourself organised and embrace single parenthood.

It has lots of upsides

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