Last night was a bad night. Toddler has a bug so I was up and down with him (DP has to work today so I did all the night trips) DP had insomnia. He huffed, rolled about roughly and in the end became so frustrated that he started banging on the bed posts. I tried to comfort him, he has a 12 hour shift today after already working 5 days. I get that he's worried about working when he couldn't sleep but was it necessary for him to make such a fuss as to wake me too? Lately, he's been sleeping in the spare room as shift work means he can't sleep well and he's hyper sensitive to any 'noise', but I have my family over this weekend.
I can't help feeling that the loud huffing and puffing was to 'alert' me to his suffering and seems a tad selfish. Would he have behaved that way had he slept in the spare room?
*operating on very little sleep and wondering if I need to broach this later or let it go.