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Just because I work in a shop...

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LunasOrchid · 31/01/2020 08:24

... doesn't mean I'm thick! 😡

I had a woman approach me on checkout and demanded (didn't ask) that I convert the size of something for her from mm to inches e.g. 270mm by 540mm.

I get my phone out and use google to convert 27cm and 54cm. I tell customer is x inch by y inches. Customer immediately says I'm wrong? That the box says medium and y inches is this long whilst holding her arms out to show me. I explain it is correct and show her my phone. She says no you can't be right. There's no way it's that big.

At this point, I reiterate what I've typed in, and explain that it is definitely correct. She snatches the box from in front of me and says she's going to ask somebody who actually knows what they're doing Angry

I have to admit I did lose my temper here and told her not to bother coming to my till as I won't be serving her. Luckily my supervisor heard everything and backed me 100%.

I was fuming. Why do people assume that people who work in shops are thick and speak down to them. I have a first class degree and a post graduate degree. I work in a shop because it's stress free (most of the time), flexible hours and I enjoy it. I am not thick Angry

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JigsawsAreInPieces · 31/01/2020 17:29

Sadly I have found giving a large note and the loose change so you just get a banknote back rather than a handful of change, just seems to baffle some shop staff

I've found this on many occasions. Including the till operator who was about to put the 15p in the charity tin because she had already keyed in £20 on the till and didn't know how to work out the change from a £5.15 purchase having been given £20.15.

PorpentinaScamander · 31/01/2020 17:32

I just asked ds1 (15) if he knew how many cms there were in an inch. He said "2.5ish. So if I needed a rough conversion I'd do it in my head. If it needed to be exact I'd ask google" then asked if I was on mumsnet again Grin

Graphista · 31/01/2020 17:49

“When you've got a queue of people to serve, it is much quicker to use a calculator. I've always been shit at maths anyway.”

I’m old (as will become apparent by what I’m about to say, please be patient I’m talking 30+ years ago) I was always shit at maths at school then my first “Saturday” job was working on a checkout in a large supermarket - my mum was genuinely worried I’d struggle even with making change!

I was ok and actually it hugely improved my mental arithmetic because this was back in the days before bar codes and scanners, prices were stickered onto each individual product (a “shelf stackers” job) and there were different depts who ran their own budgets/stock control.

So there was

Groceries - tins, packets, jars & soft drinks excepting chilled ones
Bakery
Butchery
Fishmonger
Greengrocery
Dairy
Chilled
Frozen
Alcohol
Tobacconist
Toiletries & personal care
Cleaning products
Paper products

We had to enter the price on the product including 00 if price was eg £1.00, if you didn’t it entered it as if it cost 1p. Then you hit the dept key.

So far so simple right? Did I mention large BUSY supermarket?!

If you made a mistake in theory you were supposed to call over the supervisor who had a special key (literally a metal key!) that allowed her to “override” and remove the item (would show on receipt as:

Baked beans error -0.07p - I know I remember the prices I wish we still had them!!)

But of course when you’re new you’re eager to do well and there’s pressure to be fast which can mean more errors but if you called the supervisor over more than twice in a 4 hour shift they’d get pissed off and if you did it more than 3 times you were on a warning!

So...rather than call supervisors over for EVERY error we quickly learned to make the mental arithmetic adjustments to the depts and key that in. Hard to explain. Example

Baked beans 0.07p accidentally keyed into bakery so the next bakery item in that customers shop we’d deduct 7p from the amount and key it into groceries and the remainder onto bakery. I hope that makes sense.

So the depts totals were correct, the customers bill was correct and your till balanced at end of shift. (Oh the fun that was closing out your till and you were a penny out and couldn’t sodding “find” it!)

By the end of 3 years there my tolls were ALWAYS right and I was the fastest checkout assistant. It’s a fairly mundane job so I used to challenge myself on speed and by the time I left I could process a £35 shop (which was enough for a family of 4’s weekly shop then) including credit card payment (using a “shuffler” manual credit card machine which used carbon copies etc) in 3.5 minutes!

On the imperial v metric I’m of the age I started school JUST after we’d moved (supposedly) to being completely metric, but of course my parents and teachers were far more familiar with imperial so you’d often hear them muttering conversion workings. I’m a bugger myself for accidentally mixing the 2 eg when buying carpets. My dad still converts prices back into £sd and promptly almost gives himself a heart attack frequently! Parents have recently had some much needed work done on the house and mum was giggling telling me dads face when he did the conversion on that! His comment? “I could have bought 3 houses with that much back then” 😂

“If size is important
I take a tape measure!” Yes but it’s bloody remembering to use the same “side” for all the measurements you’re taking!

The job aforementioned was my 1st of many in retail. I’ve had similar comments/experiences to pp

“shoulda worked harder in school eh?” Well probably true in my case as I only left with 4 GCSEs...but by that point I’d been to college and uni and had 2 degrees! I was working retail at that point as that particular job had great hours for me as a single mum inc no Sunday’s and bank holidays. Was pretty good pay too - considering I was the supervisor!

And yes to their (often teen) child “you don’t wanna end up working here do you?” Well there are a lot worse jobs!

Nobody’s good at EVERYTHING. I struggle with maths and physics (probably because there’s a lot of maths in it!), I’m also shit at diy type stuff I just can’t think in “3D” somehow.

But I’m good at English (one of my degrees. Often see spag and other errors on mn BUT don’t point them out

A because I’m not a twat!

B because I understand that posters may be:

Juggling children/shopping or whatever while typing

May have a learning disability

English may not be their first language - I’m mostly utterly in awe of how well non-English speakers are able to communicate in English. It’s very often far better than most English speakers can speak even one other language and English is a bastard of a language to learn not least because I don’t think there’s one “rule” that’s universal throughout the language - largely because it really is a bastard language being made up of words and language rules nicked from many other languages!), can speak several other languages to varying degrees and read a few, I can sew, cook, bake, put colours together well (either decorating or clothes), pack like a demon...

Both ignorant and arrogant to put others down for something they struggle with when it’s highly likely they’ll have another skill you could not compete with.

Everyone has something to contribute.

“I am middle management of a very large supermarket and it is rare that we get a day that goes by without at least the threat of violence.” I totally believe you. My mum mostly worked retail through her working life eventually becoming head of security at the last place a supermarket too. She retired a good while ago now and I’m so glad. When she was still working there she had a knife pulled on her more than once, she’s a tough “weegie” so wasn’t really phased (she grew up in a particularly notoriously tough part of glasgow) and most of the time she’d take a “silly wee boys pretending to be men” attitude. But it was a worry. The brazenness is shocking too! Thieves would just unplug and lift eg a flat screen tv from the display and carry it to their car, just very blasé ignoring all the alarms etc. The floor staff are now told not to approach thieves themselves but to contact the security staff but even the security staff are wary and have procedures to follow to ensure their safety. A telly isn’t worth someone’s life!

I agree it’s pointless to refuse to serve, best thing is to kill em with kindness. Throws them completely! And if they continue to behave badly just makes em look even more of a twat!

Very rare I refused to serve and I reserved that for the “creepy stalker” types that I didn’t feel safe with.

To paraphrase bill bryson I can’t decide if it’s impressive that such qualified people are working in retail or whether it’s a shame they’re unable to get work that suits them (hours etc) in their chosen (and worked very hard and studied for) professions.

Btw if you think retails bad try nursing!! Whole other level of shit attitudes and safety issues!

bluebluezoo · 31/01/2020 18:01

And yes to their (often teen) child “you don’t wanna end up working here do you?” Well there are a lot worse jobs!

I had this argument last week. I’d pointed out a saturday job in macdonalds was actually a good stepping stone as their graduate programme is bloody good and apparently you can choose anywhere in the world to work. Not so shitty.

But no, it would be beneath the child to flip burgers in macdonalds.

MrsToothyBitch · 31/01/2020 18:26

I had a degree and I'd left my post grad teaching course when I went into retail. I needed a job, fast! Worked my way up to the management and eventually got into an office job.

I stayed because my self esteem and confidence were through the floor, initially, and it was a job I did happily. Then because promotion offered up better opportunities and a new skillset.

I now get people asking how I went from a "shop job" to current role in MoD. Seems to amaze them that people work in retail at various points in their lives, for various reasons.

Yeahnah2020 · 31/01/2020 18:54

It can also go the other way. Ridiculously snooty, unhelpful shop assistants in shops that sell expensive clothes. I always think “lose the attitude! You work in a bloody shop.” Not exactly a big deal.

spongejack · 31/01/2020 19:15

@Yeahnah2020 so you're saying you look down on shop workers? Shame on you!!! Have you not read the thread?

TheDarkPassenger · 31/01/2020 19:20

I used to manage a hotel and people used to ask me ‘but what’s your real job’ or ‘are you at uni too’

No shitface I earn a fuck load of money running this place so suck my dick

ReginaGeorgeous · 31/01/2020 19:29

I worked in a shop as a student and it was shocking how awful and rude some customers could be. Ironically, it was a shoe shop I worked in, and I served a ridiculous number of adults who had no bloody clue what their own shoe size was. I don't mean people who try on two sizes as they can be in-between, I mean people who would come in and ask for a size 8, and then arse around sizing down until they discovered they're actually a size 3.

SquareOnTheHypoteneuse · 31/01/2020 19:29

Sadly I have found giving a large note and the loose change so you just get a banknote back rather than a handful of change, just seems to baffle some shop staff

I can tell you exactly why they are baffled - if you don’t hand the loose change over at the same time as the note (which often happens), then the assistant has keyed the wrong amount into the till and is consequently reading an incorrect amount of change. Obviously they then have to add the amount of change the till is advising to the loose change you’ve just given them. Fine, they can do that.
BUT, sometimes if the cashier is quick to enter the note value, and the customer is slow proffering the loose change, the till flashes the change amount, opens the drawer and then the screen automatically clears and moves on. You’re then relying on the assistant to remember how much your original change was (the till prompt has disappeared) and that assistant has already served 100+ customers, one after another, after another - but you expect them to remember your particular transaction.
Customers are such a pain in the arse.

nothingcanhurtmewithmyeyesshut · 31/01/2020 19:36

I'm 29 and was never taught inches and feet in school. I haven't a fucking scooby what a yard looks like either. Was all metric when I was in education.

Greenwingmemories · 31/01/2020 20:17

Nixby but your post implied surprise, if not shock, that anyone with a good degree would work in a shop. My point is you shouldn't make assumptions.

Why is it any of your business why someone works in a shop?

But the most important point is that no one should disrespect someone for working in what they might consider a lowlier profession (I can't think of why they would be so rude otherwise, if not arrogance).

My mother did the finger clicking thing in a restaurant too. I cringed with embarrassment. Graciousness and class cannot be bought.

user1473069303 · 01/02/2020 08:14

I enjoyed reading your post, Graphista

Juliette20 · 01/02/2020 08:21

One of the most terrifying things about teaching maths is how terrible most children are at converting between units.

Well, presumably that's why you are teaching them maths, so that they will become good at it. Or does the government expect children now to come out of the womb with an instinctive knowledge of mass and volume?

AreWeAnywhereNear · 01/02/2020 08:28

I'm 45 early 40s and was taught metric at school, I know a door is usually about 6 foot and a 30cm ruler is 12 inches but that's my lot really, I guess length in mm/cm not inches.

If I'm baking however I use the imperial system but that's just because my Mum & Grandma taught me.

It's a weird mix of measurements we use.

Juliette20 · 01/02/2020 08:39

I'm 44 and know what a pint is Wink and know my height and weight in imperial and metric. But I was never taught to convert between the two, in fact I remember being told off for measuring in inches in about 1984. I was taught that metrc is what you use to measure stuff and that's that.

Juliette20 · 01/02/2020 08:40

Oh yes baking. I taught myself to convert there. And I can also use the US cup measurements!

Yeahnah2020 · 01/02/2020 09:56

@spongejack no I’m saying the opposite! Often shop workers look down on their customers if they deem them “unworthy” to be shopping in their esteemed shop. That is what pisses me off. Everyone should be treated the same regardless of what they do or how much money they have.

spongejack · 01/02/2020 10:01

*@Yeahnah2020

You work in a bloody shop.” Not exactly a big deal.*

Sounds to me like you're looking down on shop workers? 🤷‍♀️

PlomBear · 01/02/2020 10:08

Some shop workers DO look down on customers. I’ve noticed I get a lot more politeness and friendliness when I’m shopping after work in “naice” shops in smart Hobbs work clothes than at a weekend when I’m in casual clothes. I also look quite young too.

Beauty counters are the worst for rude staff IMO.

When using business class check in, I am sometimes asked “are you a business class traveller?” Well I’m actually a BA silver card holder too so doubly entitled to use this check in, priority security and the lounges. Never happens to my parents!

That doesn’t mean I look down on customer service staff, they look down on me! 😂

bluebluezoo · 01/02/2020 10:37

Some shop workers DO look down on customers

I was 21 when i bought my first flat. Pre internet days. Had mortgage and deposit sorted, first time buyer. I walked into an estate agent and asked for further details of a property I was interested in in the window.

Apparently it had just gone under offer. I asked if they had anything similar, but it turned out everything in and above my price bracket was also under offer. They had nothing I could view Hmm.

Similar in furniture shops when i was looking for a sofa for said flat. A surprising amount of salesmen had nothing available.

Femail · 01/02/2020 10:50

I get that a lot . I work in a supermarket and give good customer service. But if a customer decides to be rude I'll tell them not to tall to me like that and if they carry on I'll wall away and tell a supervisor or manager. We are not there to be spoke to like crap and soon as some customers realise that the better. When a customer says well the customer is always right I will tell them no not always Grin

lazyarse123 · 01/02/2020 11:53

Brilliant post [graphista].
I work in a shop and mostly I love it. It suits me. We have a particularly obnoxious customer who everyone dislikes.
I was filling a shelf and bending over when he came in and said "that's not a very welcoming sight" admittedly it's not but it's not his place to say it. I ignored him and have kept out of his way since. Unfortunately the manager wasn't in otherwise he would have had a word. I was very upset but told every body I was angry and put a brave face on but it was extremely hurtful. It helped that we all know he's a twat.

Graphista · 01/02/2020 15:22

@user1473069303 and @lazyarse123

Thank you

Sickandscared · 01/02/2020 16:11

@lazyarse123 I can't believe you have to put up with that abuse in work. Couldn't you tell him to leave?

Slightly different but in my late twenties I decided to go to college at nighttime. I had been working a relatively well paid but stressful job which I never managed to get home from at a reasonable hour. I took a job on a reception desk so I could give my studies my best shot. It was not so much that people in the company were ride but that they spoke to me like I was a little bit silly.

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