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To not believe that some people don't have an internal monologue?

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BirdieFriendBadge · 31/01/2020 06:30

Even though I've just read this:

ryanandrewlangdon.wordpress.com/2020/01/28/today-i-learned-that-not-everyone-has-an-internal-monologue-and-it-has-ruined-my-day/

I can't quite understand if. Hoping some MNs of the non-monologue type can help me out.

Especially with the reading part.

When I'm reading descriptions fast I don't properly say the words in my head, more of a picture forms I guess. But I'm hearing any dialogue words.

And chattering away to myself in my head all day long. Must be nice not to!

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northernknickers · 31/01/2020 06:45

I'm wondering how this can be true...and whether the people who say that they don't have an internal voice, are simply misunderstanding? I mean...'thinking' requires an internal voice. Dreaming requires an internal voice. They must have it...just don't actually recognise or acknowledge what it is.

user1493413286 · 31/01/2020 06:50

If this is true then my mind is slightly blown although does this explain people who don’t think before they speak or people who don’t have a thought that they don’t verbalise?

Besidesthepoint · 31/01/2020 06:56

People who are born deaf probably don't hear a voice as well and they also think without it somehow, so it must be possible.

ifeellikeanidiot · 31/01/2020 06:56

There are degrees of interval monologue though, aren't there?

Eg, some days mines so full on I could walk for three hours, just letting the voice chatter on. When people talk about walking being boring, I'm a bit Shock because for me it's a relief to let the voice run free.

On the other hand, if I've done really hard cardio, it has shut my voice down for a few hours which is kind of bliss. But also disconcerting. And a bit boring Grin

VirtualHamster · 31/01/2020 06:57

Dreaming requires an internal voice.

My dreams rarely have dialogue

DukeChatsworth · 31/01/2020 07:00

I can hear words in my head when I read silently.

Other than that I don’t hear any voices when I think. No negative voice. No ongoing internal monologue at all. Nothing. When I first read about it on here I found it amazing and slightly terrifying that people do tbh.

SirTobyBelch · 31/01/2020 07:00

I think people who are able to think abstractly (e.g. mathematicians, artists) probably don't think as much in words as we lesser brings.

BlueEyedFloozy · 31/01/2020 07:01

I thought I read somewhere a while back that some people think in images e.g pictures, colours and/or written words whereas others think in verbal form.

I find it interesting and do believe that these variations occur because people do retain and process information differently - I hear my voice in my head pretty much all day (the "normal" ones!) and I can "play" full songs to entertain myself but I can't build images if someone asks me too.

SimonJT · 31/01/2020 07:04

If I think in Urdu I have an internal monologue, if I’m thinking in English e.g trying to remember an English word then there’s no internal monologue, more feelings/sensations and visual memories.

99problemsandthecatis1 · 31/01/2020 07:06

I can (and do) play entire films in my head. No reruns of actual films more films of my thoughts - imagined other lives, How I'd respond in certain situations. That sort of thing. Other times it's just words/ a voice. My dreams are almost entirely silent. Though I rarely dream these days, used to have such vivid ones.

Thewheelsarefallingoff · 31/01/2020 07:12

I'm not sure DH has one, he thinks I'm a bit strange when I blurt out something relating to a conversation I've been having in my head for some time. I'm very tangential (if that's a word) and he doesn't get it.

AwdBovril · 31/01/2020 07:13

I don't. I used to see words in my head - I was exceptionally early & gifted at reading & spelling, but I've got neurological issues which have unfortunately impacted my ability to concentrate on many things, including reading large blocks of text, & I can't always remember how to spell fairly common words either. I don't read for pleasure any more. I can manage MN, mostly, but I need someone to help me with signing documents etc.

So no, I used to have a sort of internal monologue, but it's gone now. Kind of freeing, but also quite lonely. I do struggle to keep track of what I'm thinking a lot of the time, IYSWIM. My short term memory is appalling. I think people who say they don't have one, must naturally function differently somehow, as I now struggle to cope without this.

WhoKnowsWhatsAroundTheCorner · 31/01/2020 07:23

Very occasionally I’ll get a voice in my head - which I just thought was a strong thought. It happens when I’m in a conversation with someone who’s unnecessarily aggressive and it’s best to not provoke them further. The voice always says ‘shut up and listen’ in that instance

Otherwise I do not have a voice running in my head all day - I think more in ideas - bu no monologue of what I’m doing or should do. It sounds both useful and distracting to me

I am quite impulsive - so I do wonder if an internal voice would help me think things through better. I’ll try to cultivate an internal conversation when I’m buying things.

turkeyboots · 31/01/2020 07:28

Apparently a high percentage of people with dyslexia have no internal monologue. I'm one of them. Was amazed to realise other people are going round conversing with themselves!

Weallfloatdownhere · 31/01/2020 07:31

I don’t actually hear words but I think they constantly. It gets very intrusive, especially when it randomly wakes me up at 3am or when I’m supposed to be concentrating on work.

I “hear” words the same way I “see” things with my mind’s eye. I think. But sometimes I also picture the words too, in large shouty cartoon letters or whatever.

At the same time as thinking/seeing/hearing whatever my internal monologue is going on about, my brain is also imagining random shit like a horse made of bananas or god knows what else.

It’s very loud, very colourful and it’s a miracle I get anything done. I do have concentration issues, have done since I was a kid, maybe this is why...

I can’t imagine it not being there.

Weallfloatdownhere · 31/01/2020 07:32

*”i think them constantly” that was meant to say in the first line...

DukeChatsworth · 31/01/2020 07:33

I should add that whilst I have no internal voice other than a reading one, I often have song lyrics on a loop on my head.

But in the sense of being able to have an internal conversation. Nothing.

Halloweenbabyy · 31/01/2020 07:36

I constantly have chatter. Worse when my anxiety and depression are bad tho.

Shadyshadow · 31/01/2020 07:38

turkeyboots that's interesting. I dont have an interaction monologue running all day and I am dyslexic.

My brain create images. Unless I am trying to sound a word out in my head, to write it. Everything else is images. When I read, its images in my head.

Its why always hate films made from books. It's never anywhere near my image of it.

If I remember to do something I dont get a thought 'oh I need to do x'. I get an image of x in my head.

But no, no running monologue.

Unless people who do, have the same and call it a monologue. Maybe we all have the same but interpret it differently.

Brahumbug · 31/01/2020 07:39

Helen Keller, who was blind and deaf from birth, describes her nightmares in which there no sound or vision but are still terrifying.

LeekMunchingSheepShagger · 31/01/2020 07:40

I have many words in my head but no images. I can’t visualise images at all. I’m autistic though so I don’t know if it’s related to that.

ofay · 31/01/2020 07:40

Surely it's all mixed up for many of us, people's voices, images, random thoughts and feelings.

dayswithaY · 31/01/2020 07:43

I have a constant dialogue in my head. I feel like it loves me and I would be so lonely without it, sometimes I'd love a day of silence.

BirdieFriendBadge · 31/01/2020 07:47

@shadyshadow

"Unless people who do, have the same and call it a monologue. Maybe we all have the same but interpret it differently"

I also wondered this!!!

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Newmetoday · 31/01/2020 07:51

I have one and I have a very strong minds eye. I can close my eyes and think of somewhere and it’s like I’m there. It’s good for visualising how furniture will go in a room and stuff. I love it

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