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Child aged 17 diagnosed with Epilepsy

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Gemlam55 · 30/01/2020 22:35

PLEASE HELP !!!
I have three girls ages 17, 13 and 10 🥴
My 17 year old daughter was diagnosed with generalised epilepsy at the age of 16. I'm looking for anyone in Norfolk young/old and families that are going or have been through the same thing. We have struggled as a family to get support and wondering if there is anyone else out there who feels the same. My aim is to build a group of families who can all get together and talk one way or another 💗

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Patchworksack · 30/01/2020 22:46

I'm sorry your daughter has been diagnosed. Look for groups on Facebook - ESUK would be a good place to start. My daughter had infantile spasms and we started a FB support group for similar reasons and now run a small charity with local meet-ups. We're the other end of the age spectrum obviously but it does help to meet other famies who 'get it'. Good luck!

Notreallyhavingitall · 30/01/2020 22:47

Not in Norfolk but happy to talk /message. 17 yo DS diagnosed at 15.

Gemlam55 · 30/01/2020 22:58

Ok so I have never been on a forum before so excuse my ignorance please. I'm not sure what DS means Confused
I dont have facebook as trying to encourage my daughters not to have social media but maybe that's the way I need to head. I want to start up a small charity and group near me as the closest one is 2 hours away.
She is still having grand malls but is 1 month seizure free tomorrow YAY !!!!!
Medication has been changed alot.
I think its really important for not just our children but for us parents to talk about things like this.
Thankyou for your kind words and time xx

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Patchworksack · 31/01/2020 07:22

Ds = dear son.
A lot of the existing group use FB, it's worth starting a profile even if you don't add any friend and just use it for the epilepsy groups.

Musicaltheatremum · 31/01/2020 07:32

That's so hard having epilepsy. Hope you get support. On a practical note she is entitled to free bus travel. Sorry....not much support to you but just in case you'd not been told.

Oblomov20 · 31/01/2020 08:53

Poor you. She will struggle with independence, she will also struggle to get a driving licence.

Has her local consultant at the hospital directed you to any local support groups?

Hopefully you will be entitled to the some financial benefits to help : the old DLA (Disability Living Allowance) which could be £600-£800 per month, but the new PIP is much worse to get!

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