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Anyone ever have a friendship develop into something more? What were the signs?

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bigboxlittlebox1 · 24/01/2020 15:00

Just that really. How did you know? Nothing sinister. Nobody else involved . Just a
Gut feeling that there's been a shift in feeling? We work closely together every day, see each other outside of work, new t too much contact on sm but still feel a change but wonder if I'm deluding myself!

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Trumpleton · 24/01/2020 15:04

I'm now married to my friend!
Hanging out a lot, both in groups and then just us two, chatting/texting frequently, mutual friends asking what was going on! Both reluctant to make the first move so friend zone continued for a while... no special signs except I guess we both made the effort to see each other/do things and make plans. Good luck!

bigboxlittlebox1 · 24/01/2020 16:37

Anyone else??

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CheshireDing · 24/01/2020 16:39

Work colleague for years - then more tactile, more texting, more compliments.

bigboxlittlebox1 · 24/01/2020 19:07

That sounds promising ! I am in the same position except that I was involved last year when this was happening and ended when I told him my situation. I am now single and he knows since last weekend.

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Sakura7 · 24/01/2020 19:21

This was me and DP. We were spending more time together, texting every day, and a trust developed where we could talk about pretty much anything. One day he asked me to go to a friend's party with him, I wasn't able to but I thought nothing of it. Mentioned it to a friend and got "it's so obvious he likes you." Eventually we went out after work just the two of us, had a few drinks and after a torturous amount of time skirting around the issue we finally got our act together. Still going strong three years later. Wink

bigboxlittlebox1 · 24/01/2020 19:42

Such lovely stories!
Sometimes , even though he compliments and being tactile And hangs around etc , I wonder why f it is because he just likes me as a person.
It's hard to know .thats why I posted .rhanks and continued happiness!

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Sakura7 · 24/01/2020 19:51

I know OP, I thought the same but I think deep down you know :)

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