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To be hurt ? They have booked up without me ?sneaky.

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snowflakes34 · 23/01/2020 12:01

My friend of 10 years fell out with me and in the process has turned everyone against me.
We all went on holiday in October and had a group chat.
That was all talk about the next trip.
She fell out with me and now they have opened a new group chat and booked without me (to go back to the same place)
They are all tagging each other on nights out and events and obviously I'm not invited.
She tried it on with my boyfriend and denied it.
I know she did because she has form and I've seen her before rubbing his leg etc and he's looked terrified.
I confronted her and she called me crazy and told all the other girls (turned on the tears )
Then said I went in her house threatening to punch her (I never even raised my voice )

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Ohyesiam · 23/01/2020 14:20

You need a better calibre of friend.

They will see what shes like in time.

thedancingbear · 23/01/2020 14:23

sorry but I laughed at your boyfriend looking "terrified", is he such an easy prey grin

I agree! Sexual assault's really tittersome when it happens to a man, isn't it?

Neat victim blaming too. The great big sap!

Nimello · 23/01/2020 14:23

Heaven help them if anything genuinely bad ever happens to them. @CakeandCustard28

lalahotpants · 23/01/2020 14:25

Are you the OP that fell out with friend A and friend B over holiday and concert tickets???

BlingLoving · 23/01/2020 14:38

I've been through this a few years ago. And it's all parents on the school run. It's really hard. But I remind myself that they clearly aren't good people if they were willing to just g along with my exclusion without putting up any kind of protest.

justasking111 · 23/01/2020 14:41

Step back make new friends and wait till she starts hitting on their partners, a leopard does not change its spots. My OH was hit on by my friend he too was terrified and said never leave me alone with her again. Grin

BrendasUmbrella · 23/01/2020 14:57

If she has form why did they believe her and not you?

In any case, they have chosen her over you. Block them all and get some new friends.

AmICrazyorWhat2 · 23/01/2020 14:59

rubbing his leg etc

Wow, she sounds like a great friend, not. More like something on heat. Grin

Just ditch them, OP, you don't need people like this, she sounds so immature and stupid. Find some real friends who treat you with respect, it'll be worth it.

newyearsresolution2010 · 23/01/2020 15:13

I have a group of friends, a few years back one of them took a dislike to me (still don't know why). She tried to turn the others against me, would see a couple on their own, but that ended up fizzling out and now no-one sees her. I still see them all.
It was hard, but in the end my friends weren't going to be told who to be friends with (she actually said it was her or me!), or be friends with someone so bitchy and weird.
We're in our 30/40's so it does happen.

snowflakes34 · 23/01/2020 18:18

Sorry for late reply everyone -I have just finished work.
I don't think I'm going to even bother trying to put my point across,if they can be so sneaky it's not really worth it.

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