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to ask for more work in new job

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Sarah510 · 22/01/2020 14:55

I started a new job about 2.5 months ago and I'm really disappointed that I don't have very much to do. It was a difficult interview process, and I was so happy and excited to start. But it's really disappointing. I have a direct 'line manager' who I'll call Jill and she just doesn't seem to want to delegate much to me. I have a manager above her again, who I'll call Karen who seemed better, and she said to me early on, not to wait until Jill tells me to do something, but to be pro-active. But whenever I try and take on a task, Jill says 'no no I'll do that'. I offer to do things for her, but she always says no. She gives me quite babyish things to do, which I do really quickly and am back up to her again asking for more work. I don't like to keep nagging her either though, as she keeps telling me she is very stressed out. Managing me and one other colleague who is part-time, is only 30% of her job, the other 70% she manages about 6 other people. I've said it to Karen, that I don't have anything to do, and she gives me some vague directions, but when I try to take ownership, Jill shoots me down and says 'no no I'll look after that'. I'm literally twiddling my thumbs today. I've been up to her once, and she said she would be down to me if she has time. Karen said they were delighted to get me as I have so much experience, and they need me, but I don't know why yet. I seem superfluous to requirement! ANy advice.

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Sarah510 · 22/01/2020 16:10

anyone?

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katy1213 · 22/01/2020 16:17

Can you just jump in and get it done without going through Jill? Then when she tries to take control, you can say, 'It's done.'
Or say - in front of both women - that you feel that Jill's reluctance to delegate leaves you with nothing to do?
Can you generate projects for yourself?

Sarah510 · 22/01/2020 16:26

thanks katy. I dunno. Gonna have a think tonight. Another totally waste of a day. Jill never came down so I've been just staring into space, reading old emails, looking at old documents, but have done nothing today. Will have to have a big think tonight and work out what to do.

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GhostofFrankGrimes · 22/01/2020 16:47

Does jill really have alot of work to do or is she keeping it to herself because she knows there isn't enough to around?

Sarah510 · 22/01/2020 16:50

I don't know ghost. She is always complaining about being stressed, and busy - with her 'other job' the 70%. KAren said they had recruited me as they really need a fulltime person to 'take charge' of the 30%. There's a colleague who is good, but she's part-time. Think I'll have to say something. I've said it before, but Jill just brushes me off saying, oh yes, well it will be getting very busy soon. Am disappointed as I love being busy. The days are dragging.

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BritInUS1 · 22/01/2020 16:51

Do you have an HR Department or a overall manager? I would speak to them

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 22/01/2020 17:01

Jill is a control freak.

GhostofFrankGrimes · 22/01/2020 17:09

Ask Jill what the forthcoming "busy" period entails so you can start planning your time in order to accommodate.

Sarah510 · 23/01/2020 09:24

I think I'm going to ask what my actual role is. I dont understand why they employed me tbh. I don't see where I 'fit in'. Is it too soon to ask that do you think. There was a lot of talk in the interview about being 'proactive' . Unless it's a much more junior position than was advertised. Which is disappointing

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Sarah510 · 23/01/2020 09:25

For instance I'm here now and have done nothing yet. I'm "saving" the little bit of work until I've drank some coffee. Hate it. Would much prefer to be busy. the days are so long and boring.

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FortyFacedFuckers · 23/01/2020 09:34

No advice really OP I started a job like that in April last year and she has given me a few tasks to do that can take up maybe 2 days but the other days I am really struggling, I started offering to do projects directly for the higher manager who is delighted with the work I do but the manager below her kicks off and says I am far too busy to take on extra task and then gives me piles of photocopying or other rubbish to do leaving the office juniors with nothing, Confused

FuckKnowsMate · 23/01/2020 09:40

Honestly, I would start looking for a new job asap. I had a job like this once and it was soul destroying going into work knowing there would be nothing to do. It sends you crazy. It never got better either despite promises of more work, busier periods etc.

Suzcat78 · 23/01/2020 09:48

I had this same situation, the job was going to be a massive development opportunity for me and was promised I’d work in many tasks including projects etc, turns out I did not do very much at all or what I was asked to do was really basic and dull. I spoke to my manager and like you was proactive and asked for more work or asking to get involved in more tasks etc. She said yes but it never came to fruition. I did get involved with some things but then someone else would take over!

It was mind numbing and pretty soul destroying really as I’d left my previous job of 6 years to start there to do some great work. I ended up leaving after 4.5 months as I knew it wasn’t going to change. The real kicker was that my manager wasn’t even surprised when I resigned and realised the job she hired me for wasn’t actually something she needed! Hmm.

I think it’s best to be honest, identify tasks you can take on and explain that’s what you were hired for. I know you have done this to some degree but be persistent.

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