I need some wise words to help me get over the feelings I have towards my friend. We have been friends for years but over that time she has slowly been doing things that have frustrated me. It all started off with her getting exactly the same coat, then her sleeping with a number of different men in the hope of getting pregnant while I was doing IVF (this was just a coincidence, she's always wanted a baby). She then meets and marry's a man within a year and is now pregnant. I'm very happy for her re-the baby but I can't move on from her nonsense. She says things like 'DH is going to be an accountant, he's wants to do Prince2 qualifications' 'DH has got a job as a stop gap, if he works 40hr week we will cover our bills & food. I'm off to see what the government will give us as well'. 'It turns out we're not entitled to anything so I'm going to sell my flat to get one off the council'. 'We ran away to get married, but I want a big wedding here'. All of this infuriates me and when I gently challenge her, she rejects what I say.
I want to be friends with her and she does do things I love such as crafts and walking but I just can't move on from her fantasyland. Does anyone have any words of wisdom to give me that enlightened moment so I can relax and be myself round her?
(We did have a baby so no resentment there)