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AIBU?

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To want to slap his ex silly???

8 replies

Em1ly27 · 21/01/2020 15:27

All I can say is god help me lol. So I have been with my partner for over 2 years we have had issues with both of our ex's but things appeared to calm down. Anyway his ex who he has 2 children with who I've grown to become quite fond of chat away etc so swimming lessons with both of our kids together, even had her in our home for a cup of tea the other day so yeah! Anyway out of the blue she turns back into a first class idiot, we drop the kids back the other night and well she is just in a mood teller my partner she is going to move away with the kids. As the week has gone on she has just slipped into her old self. All of a sudden I'm a cow, she wont bring the boys swimming now with my son, and telling him shes on her own and she wishes they never split etc. Just honestly turned vile. I'm thinking she got involved with someone and its finished and thinks sod it I'm going to mess up his life. Well she really is, my partner is in bits and shes messing up the kids routines for her own selfish ways. Anyone out there have an answer to an awful ex? Xx

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Ellisandra · 21/01/2020 15:36

My answer would be to vet your boyfriends more carefully - it won’t weed out every ‘awful’ ex, but it will weed out some.
I’ve seen your previous posts about him. You let him back after he dumped you then?
You also moved him after just 10 months, when you have a child.
When someone has a difficult ex, it’s even more reason to slow everything down.
Perhaps she’s awful because he treated her as shittily as he treated you?

Sweettruelies · 21/01/2020 15:39

You want to slap her silly? You sound nice.

Chocmallows · 21/01/2020 15:39

Is your AIBU really on you wanting to slap her?

iklboo · 21/01/2020 15:40

Is your AIBU really on you wanting to slap her?

It's quite obviously a ranty figure of speech.

dayswithaY · 21/01/2020 15:45

It's not your business what his Ex does, it is between her and your partner to sort it out. Your job is to support him.

BrimfulofSasha · 21/01/2020 15:46

Your partners ex and their kids are none of your business

pooopypants · 21/01/2020 15:47

Sounds to me like she's in need of a friend and a shoulder. I'm not suggesting you're either, just an observation.

TheGirlWithAPrince · 21/01/2020 16:26

Yeah to be honest she sounds sad and hurt, maybe seeing you be all happy families whilst she is on her own (perhaps) has hurt her.

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