I’m 30 weeks PG and just before Christmas I received a call from our maternity unit asking why I hadn’t arrived for my appointment that morning. I explained I didn’t have one booked and my next appointment was in a week or so. The lady on the phone got quite flustered and whilst she didn’t admit it, it was clear that there are two of us with the same name using the maternity services at the moment.
I laughed it off and said merry Christmas, didn’t think anything more of it.
Yesterday I went to a community midwife appt and have had a tough few weeks - GTT, reduced movements and bleeding, all of which seem to have now settled and be ok (touch wood) but my latest admission to hospital for monitoring was Friday. Midwife goes to do my bump measure and says “oh! When did you go for a growth scan?!” I had to explain multiple times I hadn’t had a scan since 20 weeks but that I’d been told on Friday I should have one to check for no further source of bleeding.
She then quickly realised there were 2 wingingit101’s, babies due 4 weeks apart. The other lady has had a scan which has been tracked on my records, and I haven’t had notes or referrals from Friday added to my own notes.
Community midwife was fab, got straight on phone to the right team asking them to sort it and referred me for my own scan.
I left the appt and was telling my husband - laughing at what are the chances of two of us being due to close together, and saying we just needed to be vigilant when speaking with doctors etc to remind them every Time which wingingit I am - use my DOB and ask them to check. I was happy to leave it there but he’s really angry. He was worried things like test results may get mixed up (we asked them to check and they confirmed the other lady hadn’t had GTT so we know my results for that are at least my own!!) and that when doctors read my charts, if they can’t remove her notes and measurements that it’ll look really confusing and perhaps lead to less clear decision making.
It’s our first baby so have no idea how much they actually need to refer to these things or if they can just remove her notes easily and apply them to her own ones.
He wants to make a formal complaint but honestly I’m not sure where it would get us.
I can be a bit passive and “oh well never mind” and he’s usually pretty calm so I was surprised this upset him so much.
Wwyd - complain or leave it? And if complain, who to and what exactly about?!