I'm a bit stuck on this one and it's causing so many arguments. DH is self employed, financial role but is self employed for a company if that makes sense? His boss (female in case it makes any difference) will quite frequently message him out of hours, anything up until midnight, certainly not always work related. She also left him an entirely unnecessary, completed pissed voice message early hours of New Year's Day.
I'll be the first to admit I have trust issues, which doesn't help. DH was previously caught messaging someone else, but after a lot of time and hard work, we put that behind us. I know 100% he isn't cheating, I know she's not his type and that he finds it equally infuriating, but he doesn't want to rock the boat as she could potentially cease to give him any more work. But I've had enough. It's causing so much stress and so many arguments. He thinks I'm being completely unreasonable and I should just let it go over my head. I don't feel that it's that easy