Absent father 7 year return

[Eve23]

Hello Everyone and Happy New year to all,

I am currently in litigation with my ex. We have been divorced since 2014 separated a year before that. He was very controlling and DV. The police adviced me to move and change my car and I did that.
Now he wants contact with our son to whom he has shown no emotional connection throughout pregnancy and when i left when he was 3.
I have managed to get through the first hearing with a mckenzie friend. His solictors agreed with cafacass report which stated supervised visit straight away although it would be emotionally difficult for the child.
I got a section 7, judge really concerned with the practicalites and why so long. In that time he has contacted over 3 family member wanted to set the record straight but never mentioned the child. I need your help.

The child has no memory of him and while his lawyer argued that a fact finding is not needed. I beg to differ.

If he had changed it would be ok to start with some indirect contact. However he emailed two years ago to speak about my homesexual husband who is with his son!

Any advice or support would be appreciated.

However he emailed two years ago to speak about my homesexual husband who is with his son!

What?

Sorry, that’s should be ‘what does this mean?’

You have a gay husband who is in a relationship with your ex's son?

Sorry, that’s should be ‘what does this mean?’

I guess it means that the OP's ex "accused" her current partner of being gay ("accused' in inverted commas- obviously there is nothing wrong with being gay, but presumably it's an insult in the eyes of this abusive twunt).

I read it as the ex emailed accusing the OP DH of being a homosexual and what is he doing around his DS. Funny enough my ex accused my DH of being asexual offender in one of his many rants

My advice is always through the legal process place your DS as the number one priority. Don't get caught up on what your ex did to you as the judge won't care. It's all about the best interest of the Dc and his emotional well-being

Funny enough my ex accused my DH of being asexual offender in one of his many rants

What offence did he accuse your asexual husband of?

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Butchy

I think the PP just forgot the space between 'a' and sexual.

I think the PP just forgot the space between 'a' and sexual.

I genuinely did not read it that way.

Apologies, @champagneandfromage50.

A sexual offender! Typo😂

Jesus that was some hard reading, and I’m still confused.

2014 would be 6 years this year, not 7, so was he vacant before then?

What is he saying about your husband? Is it that he’s gay, and he doesn’t like him spending time with his son? Or that he’s is a relationship with one of his other sons?

Has he given reason for suddenly wanting to be part of your lives?

Hi watermelon tea

We have been separated since 2013 so its amost 7 years.
He has never met my husband never but has made these remarks. He has never asked how. Our son was doing but the application coincides with an increase in child maintenance to 100 pounds per Month.