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Neighbour double parking me

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Biancadelrioisback · 11/01/2020 19:38

My side of the road is houses, opposite is flats. We all have drive ways and gardens, flats have gardens but no drive. Most of the people in the flats don't seem to have cars, or at least never park them outside, most of the houses do and park on their driveways. When we first bought the house we were very excited to have a driveway, having never had one before. We have a Focus so not a huge car but we're very surprised to discover that it didn't fit on the drive way. Entrance to drive is gated with two brick walls either side and actual drive way has large stones to separate garden from drive. We had to spend quite a lot of our saving on the house and so never had the money to spend on widening the driveway so we park on the street. The road is probably just three car widths wide. Neighbour across from us has regular visitors, probably about 3-4 different cars throughout the day and for some reason, they insist on double parking us. We generally park outside our house, but if they're there when we come home, we'll park further up or down the street to avoid double parking. They, however, will only park directly opposite our car. Tonight is a great example. There are no cars on the street other than ours so absolutely no need to park where they have. I'm starting to wonder if this is a PA way of trying to tell us to park on our drive (presuming they don't know we can't).
The reason it's a problem is other cars can barely fit through the gap, some refuse to even try and will lay on their horns to get one of us to shift. At first I did move but after a year I've gotten sick of it. They don't need to park where they are parking and we're there first, why do I still have to move? I know this sounds daft but it's doing my head in. I've tried speaking to the person who lives in the flat and she just barked at me that it's not her car so not her problem. I hardly ever see her guests coming or going to ask them to stop double parking but DH says it's quite cheeky but they aren't doing anything wrong. I know they can park where they like and no one owns the road, that isn't my problem. Like I say I have no problem parking elsewhere if they're there first.
So WWYD? And AIBU to be annoyed and refuse to shift my car from now on?

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Munchietime · 11/01/2020 20:48

We had this problem. Dust carts couldn't get through and we once went several weeks with no rubbish collected. An ambulance or fire engine wouldn't have stood a chance.
We got double yellow lines down one side of the street. It took months of negotiations with the council but the whole street got together to campaign. Could you do similar?

Biancadelrioisback · 11/01/2020 20:49

Ah see DH is absolutely useless at DIY. He lacks coordination and is forever hurting himself. I'm the DIYer of the house and I cannot move the rocks. As we don't have much money I do do most of the repairs, at least I do as much as I can myself.

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Biancadelrioisback · 11/01/2020 20:50

Sadly I don't think anyone else on my street really cares!

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category12 · 11/01/2020 20:52

It doesn't take any DIY skill to move a rock, OP. I'm sure your DH could manage it.

VivaLeBeaver · 11/01/2020 20:53

There used to be this problem in my village. The pcso went round and had a word, stopped it dead.

Biancadelrioisback · 11/01/2020 20:56

No, he cant.
I don't know how to say we can't move the rocks in another way.
We can't do it. We have tried. They're in the front and back garden and we can't shift them. I am in no way strong enough and DH couldn't get them shifted either.

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SunshineAngel · 11/01/2020 21:02

Parking really does bring out the worst in people. Our house is small, with no space to park directly outside us as it would mean blocking the car on the drive in, which seems silly as we would constantly be having to move and swap all the time. Next door have a double drive (longways, but they're at the end so can get both cars in and out across the exit to our road), but also a wall across half of their front - which I park in front of when I can. Yes, in front of their house, but not across their drive, and AFAIK it's completely legal. Plus there's a wall anyway so they can hardly even see it.

They work every day, but if they get the chance and one of them is in when I go out, they will move one of their cars from the drive to the space where I park, meaning I have to go up the street quite substantially as there's lines on some of it. I don't understand. If they don't want to see a car from their front window, why put their own there? It's not blocking a view, we don't cause them any other trouble at all. They've recently got one of those video door bells, which I swear to god is to watch when I'm going out.

Yesterday I went to Morrison's which took me literally 15 minutes in total, and by the time I got home they were parked there, leaving me to cart heavy shopping up the street. I find it seriously pathetic.

SciFiRules · 11/01/2020 21:03

Dig around the rocks and use a car jack to roll them over. Avoid using a sledge hammer to open up the wall - bad choice of tool as it will probably just nock the wall over! A bolster (£6) and a club hammer (£10) are a much better solution and you'll have a much tidier finish. If the rocks are too big then break them up in situ either by hand or rent a small breaker (screwfix sell a small breaker for about £100).

Chloemol · 11/01/2020 21:07

Just say to the person that your car was there first, it’s not you double parking so if they can’t get through they need to call the police and shut the door

RandomMess · 11/01/2020 21:07

@SciFiRules I want a small breaker now...

Roundtoedshoes · 11/01/2020 21:23

Slightly inconvenient for you, but gave you tried parking across the road in ‘their’ space? They might then come home and just park in front or behind you as they might not want to cross the road.

I’d personally have to wait to catch them doing it and then go out and speak to them. Legally they aren’t doing anything wrong, but they are dicks. There may be a small chance they think you should park on your drive (i.e. don’t realise you can’t), and are trying to make a point.

TARSCOUT · 11/01/2020 21:40

Find someone with a towbar, tie rope round rock, attach to towbar and foot to the floor!,

Weenurse · 11/01/2020 21:45

Can you buy a smaller car?

mummmy2017 · 11/01/2020 21:46

Offer the rocks for free if collect.

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