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AIBU?

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AIBU to park in front of my house?

17 replies

startube · 09/01/2020 19:21

I’ve recently moved house. The street I live on now goes along in front of my house and then splits, continuing on and also doubling back behind itself. (I hope that makes sense!) But it’s all the same street name. Where the street goes back behind also leads to my back garden.

Since I moved in I have been parking in front of my house, but on the opposite side of the road. The road is fairly narrow so everybody parks on that side (neighbours who live on my side and the opposite side).

Today I had a friend visiting and she parked a bit further up the street where there was space. A woman from one of the houses by there came and knocked on my door to ask if it was my car and said it needed moving. I told her it might be my friend’s car (couldn’t actually see from my doorstep). She told me I was unreasonable for taking up two spaces in the street, and that she had been sat waiting in her car for ten minutes for somebody to come out and move the car that was “in her way”. She said that I should park in the road behind because my house isn’t on that side of the street. I replied that my front door is here so I won’t be parking so far away.

At first I thought she meant my friend was blocking her driveway, but she wasn't. The woman had parked her car on the road just by her house, but she wanted to park directly in front of her gate so she made my friend reverse one metre back!

I couldn’t believe her attitude, she was so miserable and rude. I have passed her in the street a few times since moving in and said hello but she ignores me. Now I’m worried that any time I have a visitor or I have to park further up, she may come to my door and cause problems.

So AIBU to park opposite the front of my house? And what should I say if she comes back again? It’s made me feel very unwelcome although everybody else in the street has been friendly.

OP posts:
MustardScreams · 09/01/2020 19:24

Ignore her. She has no rights over on toad parking. Tell her to call 101 next time if it bothers her that much so they can have a good laugh as well.

Letsallscreamatthesistene · 09/01/2020 19:25

Do other people who live on your side of the road park around the back?

In my experience the parking on those streets are a bit of a free for all anyway. I do think its unreasonable for her to say that your visitors shouldnt drive to see you.

GingerRH · 09/01/2020 19:31

Tell her to F off. It's a public road. As long as cars are taxed, mot'd and insured you/your visitors can park wherever you like.

If she had a drive and you felt so inclined you could also park there and there would be little she could do - police wouldn't be interested as it's a civil matter. Saw an article about this in reference to people living near airports and people parking on their drive for a week whilst they went on holiday. Grin

PPopsicle · 09/01/2020 19:35

Tell her to piss right off and read up on the law

Redglitter · 09/01/2020 19:39

Ignore her. Keep ignoring her. She has no special rights to the road outside her house. Park where suits you - not her. Dont pander to her

StoneofDestiny · 09/01/2020 19:43

Ignore her. Keep ignoring her. She has no special rights to the road outside her house. Park where suits you - not her. Dont pander to her

Exactly.
Every town or village has an idiot - she is yours.
If you give in to this bullying you will regret it for a very long time.

StoneofDestiny · 09/01/2020 19:44

and - sometimes people who have been in a place before you think they own the place. They don't and have no more rights than anybody else.

Laiste · 09/01/2020 19:47

As long as your friend's car is taxed and is not obstructing a right of way the neighbor is pissing in the wind.

GruciusMalfoy · 09/01/2020 19:49

It's a public road, you're doing nothing wrong.

Roundtoedshoes · 09/01/2020 19:50

I can’t believe your friend reversed back for her, entitled bint (the neighbour that is).

If you pay road tax you can park where you like. Ignore her and park where you like. If she comes round again have some pamphlets ready by the door for driveway firms and hand them to her.

Somanysocks · 09/01/2020 19:50

She's a twit, why do people bother to knock and try to intimidate others?

startube · 09/01/2020 20:00

Thanks for all of the replies. I thought afterwards maybe we shouldn’t have moved the car because now she may keep trying it on. But we were caught so off guard, and initially didn’t fully understand what she wanted! Then again, I don’t want to start a rift with somebody like that. 🙁 I was polite when she came to the door, but even after she got what she wanted she was incredibly rude and grumpy. I did get the sense that she was trying to boss me about because she has lived here longer. What a horrible attitude!!

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TabbyStar · 09/01/2020 20:06

My view is always if you want to park in a specific place, buy a house with a drive, otherwise you accept that you live somewhere that other people might park. An occasional friendly request to move a bit to help someone out is different from a demand to move out of "their" space.

Plumbus · 09/01/2020 20:11

Tell her to F off. It's a public road. As long as cars are taxed, mot'd and insured you/your visitors can park wherever you like.

THIS.

And if you're feeling especially retaliatory, buy a £100 banger with a couple of months MOT, tax it and dump it outside her house. That'll learn her. Wink

randomchap · 09/01/2020 20:23

I'd be parking in "her space" whenever I had the opportunity. But then again, I can be a bit of a dick.

Legallybleachblonde · 09/01/2020 20:24

I used to live on a street where you could only park on the side where the houses were. There were about 11 houses and we all parked outside our respective properties. But, that wasn't a given right; anyone could park there. Admittedly annoying if you arrived home and someone was parked in "your" space but that's just bloody tough luck and the risk you take buying a house with no driveway on a street like that. Just ignore the old misery OP :-)

Seashells47 · 09/01/2020 20:28

It’s not her space, she doesn’t own that piece of road, the public does. So just because it’s very convenient for her to park there doesn’t mean no one else can. Because she’s being rude I’d just get friend to continue to park there every time.

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