I am a widow and met my partner three years ago. We are living together - four days his place three days at mine.
My partner’s sister and husband will be staying with him soon. This means that I will not be with him full time as he only has one bedroom and a study which has a sofa bed. I suggested they stay with me, as I have a bigger house but they refused, saying that it was too far from my partner’s ex. She lives around the corner from my ex. and has recently had a second bedroom installed. This means that they can stay with her and have done so twice already.
They were together for 23 years and separated six years ago but I know that my partner’s sister would like to get them together. They are very nice people and welcomed me with open arms and so I feel very hurt that they won’t stay with me. It means that I will be alone for a week wondering whether my partner’s sister is encouraging his ex to come round for coffee or even go out with them. I will of course be welcome to go round there but I feel that they have chosen her over me. My partner adores his sister and is getting very stressed out about it. AIBU?