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AIBU to just leave a job?

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Davegrohlsnewwife · 07/01/2020 19:07

I have never just walked out of a job before, but my current role has become intolerable and is actually making a current medical condition worse (I don't need a dr to tell me this - its previously diagnosed as stress related acid reflux). I have been offered a job in a completely different field, much better conditions but they want me to start in a week. I would love this new job!

I have only been at my current job for 2 months and I am on a 6 month probationary period. It's a fixed term contract until 31st August 2020. My contract is confusing me but I think it's because I'm stressing about it; it states: "if for any reason this contract is terminated in advance of that, employer or employee must give a minimum of 1 weeks notice. If this contract is for a period in excess of 3 months, your notice period will be determined by your length of service."

Why do I feel like I am trying to understand a foreign language???

Is it terribly unreasonable to just give a week? I have brought my issues up with them, but they don't do anything or say "it's part of the job" and leave it at that. I don't want to end up having to take months off again with the acid reflux.

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Retroflex · 07/01/2020 19:22

I would tell your employer that you are leaving, and start your new job in a week. Your current employer would rather you leave with minimal notice than having an employee on sick leave indefinitely.

HandsOffMyRights · 07/01/2020 19:26

I wish I'd trusted my gut instinct after a week about how stressful the job was. Six years in and it's even harder.

I've worked for 25 years in various roles with nowhere near this level of stress and I knew it from the first week but kept hanging on in the hope things would improve, so grab that new job!

Davegrohlsnewwife · 07/01/2020 19:31

HandsOffMyRights & Retroflex

Thank you - what you say makes sense. I feel a bit sh*tty just giving a week - and I don't want bad references later on - but seeing as it's only 2 months I may be able to omit it from future CV's (which I hopefully wont need!). Xx

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PurpleTrilby · 07/01/2020 19:36

Just go, there's clearly room for you to only give a week's notice and as you say, no need to include on your cv. Ain't no job worth dying for, in the words of Ice T.

Davegrohlsnewwife · 07/01/2020 19:39

God love Ice T! He spoke much wisdom!

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myfuckingfreezer · 07/01/2020 19:44

The danger is though, do you need a reference from this job for your new one? I have some couple on month old staff and if they left me now with 1 weeks notice, I'd be furious.

Ilikewinter · 07/01/2020 19:50

As you've been there for less than 3 months you only need to give a weeks notice. Between 3-6 months you need to give longer, but the bit of the contract you've posted doesnt state how much.

Give a week as required and move onto your new job...good luck!

Isleepinahedgefund · 07/01/2020 20:50

Yes give a week and move on to the fab sounding new job. Good luck, hope the new role goes well!

Useful22 · 07/01/2020 21:02

They could give you a weeks notice, whats the difference. It's their contract terms not yours. They aren't allowed to give personal references, it would have to be factual.

myfuckingfreezer · 07/01/2020 22:35

They aren't allowed to give personal references, it would have to be factual.

That's not true, I give personal references all the time. It's also a myth that you can't give bad references. You can as long as they're accurate. I've given a bad reference and refused to give one.

OP I wasn't saying that before about references to scare you but it's a serious consideration. Your contract seems ambiguous give the line about length of service. Suggest you have a chat with your line manager and explain you're unhappy and that you'd like to go, and can they clarify your notice situation.

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